Is it normal that my sexuality seems to be changing over time?
I'm 23 and over the past few years I've come to the realization that I am indeed attracted to women (being a chick myself, this placed me in the solid lesbian category). I was never really okay with this, but over time it's just something that I came to accept, perhaps even be proud of (I've never come out though).
It's been strange lately though because I've found myself thinking about guys, in a sexual and romantic way. One guy in particular, who I've known since I was younger but hadn't seen in a while until recently is stuck in my head. I can't stop thinking about him, and I feel all of those nervous, giddy feelings when I think about him.
So, my general feelings and attraction towards girls hasn't changed, but all of a sudden I find myself wondering if I'm actually bisexual?
I feel kind of exasperated, because just when I got to a point in my life where I was okay with who I am, and all of a sudden I find myself developing feelings that I prayed for over and over from the age of about 9 or 10.
Anyway, is this normal? can sexuality be fluid? or did I perhaps just not meet a guy that I was compatible with until now? Has anyone got any insight into this?