Is it normal that my personality is unpredictable?

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ok i'm 18 and in college.I have this huge issue with myself that i've always been wanting to change but i can seem to do that.For instance i can be very talkative and then the next minute my lips are sealed and i don't say a word.I sometimes see people socialising soo easily and i always say to myself oh i wish it was that easy for me to be that social but i just can't seem to do it,another thing is i can be very confident at times and then suddenly extremely shy with my head to the ground.I get crazy mood swings like i feel soo happy,then pissed as hell and i don't wanna talk to anyone then i'm ok again then god knows what's coming next. Sometimes i feel pissed at someone for no reason just mad like crazy and don't wanna hear one word from them orelse i'll burst out with anger.Some of my colleagues say that they never heard my voice. I don't have many friends maybe just 1 or two and shallow relationships.Sometimes i wonder what are people thinking about me? am i crazy? is this normal? please help because my tutor tells me that my silence kills.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh wow you're like my twin! I'm the exact same way. I think it's normal now that I know other people feel this way.. Lol I used to think I was the only one. I sometimes feel super confident but then the feeling just shoots down and I'm too shy to even look at other people. It's weird.

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    • sugarbunny772
      12 years ago

      i feel normal now =D

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  • carterjm4
    12 years ago

    YOU ARE NORMAL. I have the same issue one second I can be the most talkative lovable person in the room, and the next second I can say fuck you and move about my day. it happens all the time. i have a few good friends, but i have lost a lot of them due to my extreme reactions. i found that i can only involve people in my life who can handle these mood swings and also that i have had to learn to let go of what I can't control. You should get netflix or something to keep you preoccupied and keep your mood from switching. sometimes i text people for an hour and then all of a sudden they stop texting and i lose my temper. Instead of cussing at them for five minutes then being okay five seconds later. i just turn on netflix watch a movie then check my phone after the movie is over. I would also suggest Googling ways to learn how to let go. I did it and it has really helped keep me away from self depression.

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