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For some reason when im about to have sex i find that its difficult for my penis to get erect. Does this happen to any of you? What can i do to make it go away?
Sounds like performance anxiety to me. I could be wrong, since you didn't go into a lot of detail. But if you're to afraid that you won't be any good, then you in turn, lose your boner. You could get over this on your own, naturally. Or find a girl that is understanding and wouldn't judge if you couldn't keep it up until you feel confident. Either way, good luck dude :)
We were in the room about to have sex she got on top of me and we were making out and that didn't give me a boner but she didn't know that i got up and went to the bathroom to piss i managed to get a boner alone and when i walked back into the room my boner went down. :( she was a lousy kisser.
Well then you didn't like her lol It's a turn off when someone sucks at kissing. Totally understandable. People think they should be getting hard and screwing just anyone, but that's not always the case. If you don't feel something towards her, then it's probably hindering your desire to have sex, and you lose your boner. Random sex isn't for everyone. If you make sure you have an absolute attraction to the girl next time, you'll probably be fine. I don't mean you have to be in love, or commited if that's not your thing. Just some sexual attraction.
You didn't say how old you are, but either you have ED, or you're just not attracted to your partner.