Is it normal that my parents said nasty things about me?
When my ex and I had an argument, out of despair, he rang and spoke to my parents. Amongst other things my parents said to him
- that I never deserved him, or was worthy of him
- that he was an idiot for putting up with me for so many years
- that I must have found someone else (my ex knew this wasn't true)
Do you think it is normal to speak of their children like this? I suspect that they said these things in order to calm my ex down, but then again it could be that they really meant those things?