Is it normal that my mum wants to keep my son and have him taken away

What? That's got to be the longest sentence in the world. I don't even remember what I was going to say now.

Well, I don't know the whole story and I never will but honestly, you don't sound mentally stable.

Buying babies toys and spoiling them isn't enough and I don't know enough about your parenting skills to tell you whether or not you're a good Mom and no, thinking you're a good Mom and "trying your best" isn't enough to qualify. If caring was enough, then our foster care systems wouldn't be so loaded down and child abuse wouldn't be so common. Most parents care about their children, but they don't care enough about themselves and that's the problem. You can't care for a child unless you are caring your yourself!

You need to get mental help. You need to get yourself together. Honey, if you can't take care of yourself, what makes you think you can take care of a baby? You are not stable, you probably don't have a job and even if you do, with the mental state you're at, you couldn't convince me, at this point, that you are mentally stable enough and stable enough in your life to be able to raise a baby. They're not dogs or cats, they're human beings and I'm sure you've probably figured this out the hard way by now.

Stop fighting for a while. Being in the mental state you're in will NOT help you and it will NOT CONVINCE ANYONE that you're IN ANY WAY READY to raise a baby. You need to relax, you need to get off the computer, go to bed, wake up, go to work, go to school, clean your house, whatever you're doing, clear your head and get mental help.

I'm not interested in knowing the personal details of your life because I know what I am saying is right and true, despite any personal details you need to focus on YOUR SANITY before you can even THINK ABOUT trying to help your child. If he's being fed and cared for, then leave him at that and work on yourself. Otherwise, that baby will stay gone and you'll stay MISERABLE.

If you can't provide a stable life for yourself, then you can't provide one for your baby and that's what your baby needs. Do what's best for yourself and do what's best for your baby, otherwise, you can't consider yourself fit to raise him. I know it sounds horrible and harsh of me, but you need to work on your life before you can take the kind of responsibility you need to for another innocent life.

It is NOT normal for your mother to take your child away from you. If she threw you out at 15 then you should have never spoke to her in the first place. If she threw you out how do you know that she won't do the same to your child. For the well being for your child fight for him with all that you have.

um, it depends on what kind of mother u are...

I just realized that there are no periods or commas in your post.

Anyway, I don't know the full story but from what I've read, none of this is normal. Did something happen to make your mother want to do this or has she always been this crazy? Have you consulted a lawyer or tried to get a restraining order? What were the reasons that your child was taken away?

Yh I've gone for a private place moving in next week and she had him taken away because she couldn't get money off him so she tried saying we lived on streets but I've got my own flat we haven't spoke for 3 years I had him in a sleeping routine and he was very well taken care of had my family nurse see us every week and he was very small and chunky after 3 weeks he had put on the weight he lost with in 2 days and she didn't know till the day after the wedding she's 30 she's got 6 kids but she has contact with 5 of them and 1 been addopted

Shup stag u u u u u u, no its not normal ur mum has serious issues like brain dis-order mental illness and brain function.

I really love my child I never sleep day or night worrying abht my child and my sisters son was took due to her splitting with her ex that's got 5 of their children then she got remarried to a peodifile and had another child and he got addopted away because I were 5 month pregnant and I would have adopted him apart from I couldn't carry him but I would have a family friend has now addopted him I see him when ever she has the time but she soon replayed her child with a dog I could never do that I'm defrived on sleep and I've started suffering depression really bad its causing me to loose all of my hair and I'm 18 but starting to look a lot older from stress I've got black bags under my eyes and started with stress spots really bad I've even started getting a few wrinkles on my eyes where they're black and on side I could never sleep for the past 3 months I'm fighting for my son with his father who's turning out to get stress like me when we see our son we try our hardest not to cry we just really need our son back its killing us and our family puppy's that was my sons birth pressent and 1 we've got him for christmas as we ran out of idea's he's 6 month and got a ipod and things for older kids he's even got his first fone we have got millions of toys for babys plus older kids even a cot todler bed and adult bed for him he's a really spoilt baby that's well loved we've now been cut off from him because the social worker can't get off his arse and come to see us we've not seen him for 2 weeks were booking to see a phycoligist its causing us to be in an early grave they'res days we just wish we could change every thing in our life I just really need my son I'm desperate for answears and that from social workers,solicitors and my mum but if I see my mum I'm just going to kill her for wat she has done and all family and friends are praying for our son he's a muslim but getting treated like a white baby he was in mosque they've stopped his religion now we've got no say for wat he can be braught up or anything they're just really sad people god didn't make the world for it to be such a terible place he made it for every1 he didn't make no king or queen the people has trashed gods creation of life if it was made to be cruel no1 would have kids it was made for people to keep kids as my mum has suffered depression. Since her 1st now she's got 9 children

Yes I'd say it's normal some mothers are just fucked up, but I don't know in your case because you didn't explain why she's trying?

No it's not normal.

No parent that really wants their child should be seperated from them.

My sister only had her baby took from being married to a peodo her ex got her other 5 kids and my mum wants mine for money