Is it normal that my mum glares at me?

My mum won't stop glaring at ever since my dad died and she doesn't talk to me anymore. She acts like it was my falt that he died. She doesn't show me any susport in what I do at school, I feel like she hates me.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • HarperLee

    People go through a lot of different emotions after the death of a loved one. As other posters have commented- death is tough to deal with and people deal with it in many different ways. If it's at all possible, maybe the both of you speaking with a grief counselor would help?

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  • MrHooliganschmoolagin

    That's creepy...if my mom glared at me all the time as if I was the one who caused a death, I would move out...

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  • chocolatepizzayeah

    Talk to her. Ask her what's wrong. If she ignores you, or continues staring just turn round and ask her what she's looking at.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Tell that bitch to stop being so dramatic.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Just give her time to adjust it's not easy losing your partner try and see it from herpoint of view.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Just give her time to adjust it's not easy losing your partner try and see it from her point of view.

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  • is she giving you the evil eye look

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  • kelili

    Your mum just need some time maybe. And yes you should talk. i know that it's horrible to ask that but how did your dad died?

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    • Lovebunny

      car crash

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      • kelili

        Oh that must have been horrible. I hope that with thime your mum get over this. I sincerely think that she is still grieving and yes some people grieve in weird ways. Give her some time.

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  • Short4Words

    Have you told her this? I think you guys should talk. How recent was it?

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    • Lovebunny

      not long almost 2 months

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      • Short4Words

        This isn't the same. But my Mom wouldn't talk about my Dad at all after he died. People always do strange things after shocking events. She might be mad that she sees you in him, or think that you are acting in a way that's disrespectful. Or maybe she has different expectations of you now, now that things have changed.

        I'm not saying any of this is for sure, but it's just another reason why you need to talk to her about it. You can't let this come between, especially since what has happened.

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