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My mom won't let me hang out on weekdays. It's weird. I don't know if this is normal. She says because I have school.
Hang out around your house or hang out at the mall?
If I had a kid today, they would not be allowed to be on the computer more than 30 minutes a day, except for school work. Out into the real world and with real people. No manic romances with comic book characters, game addictions or online relationships. If a child of mine wants any of that shit, then as an adult, at 18 and in their own home, they can choose those things.
Second reply: Okay I talked to her and she screamed at me and told me it's my life just as long I balance out my schedule and my time.
That's a bit strict limiting their freedom.. But I can see why. Usually people who do those things lose their sense of reality and get mixed up between the two and have no life whatsoever.
I do have a social life but my mom is not letting me, and tells me that I hang out too much; though it's only about 2-3 times a week. But my grades are good, what does she want? Instead, she wants me to read a book some time. I don't have a problem with this but the way she's enforcing it on me is not really "right" in my ideal perspective if I have good grades, who the fuck in their rightful mind likes reading? To read is just adding fuel to the fire. Does she not I'm not stressed out enough from school? There's a reason why school exists: to read books and learn. I try to talk to her about it; she'll say I'm arguing and get pissed off. I can understand my mom getting so fed up about her work and stuff, but the way she's treating me is so dramatic and uncalled for.
I believe she doesn't think I'm mature or responsible enough and its why this reason I'm fed up kissing her ass.
If you have good grades, which I take to mean you don't get into trouble either, then I'd be more on your side on this.
But no matter what I, or anyone else on IIN says, she's your boss, dude and she has the final word in her house. Only way out of that one is to have your own house, if she won't have an open dialogue with you.