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My mom often walks around the house completely naked, i hate it.
She also comes into the bathroom when i'm showering, and pissing. But i am not comfortable with it... and she tells me this is not normal!
None of my friends families are comfortable with showing their naked bodies to each other.
It depends what Country you live in whether it is normal or not. Each culture has there own moral boundaries, it all depends on how you where raised.
My mom still moves around naked. Since my childhood she never bothered wrapped up her body after shower or when changing clothes. It gave me encouragement to do the same. Now we both comfortably move around naked and also work.
Just fuck her fuck her pussy and asshole. Cum inside her make her your wife.
This is completely normal. But we all have boundries. You need to talk to her about how it makes you feel uncortable.
Not normal. Talk to her and make it clear that your not comfortable with her nudity.
Lots of people seem prissy and uptight here. As long as she isn't physically trying to fuck you or thinking incestual thoughts, there's the cube root of jack shit wrong with nudity around the house.
I thonk it is totally normal since i am used to sleep with my mom naked in one bed especially in hot summers and on vacations
I voted not normal mainly because I have never known of anyone's parents to do this. This would be more normal if she did it while you weren't at home. I walk around my house naked all the time, but I don't have kids.
not important.... don't made yourself sad because of this simple subject. .
I reckon if ur mom wants to walk around nude then let her an stop been so up tight about it an relax.
Q if u where nude with another woman an ENJOY been nude with her an then find out late that she's ur sister wod u still feel the same
No, exposure is not normal. She really lacks boundaries & respect since you have made it clear that you (naturally) dislike her invasion of your privacy or her lack of decency or understanding that the reason some things are called "privates" is because they are. Ask her to call child welfare to get their opinion on how normal this is. Or offer to video her prancing & parading in the raw so that it can be shared with family & friends alike - since she is so sure she is normal. Keep telling her to cover up. Get a lock for the bathroom door.
Yes, it just ,means the obvious, she wants you to fuck her, raw if no panties, panties = condom
If your both straight women then it's not that weird, just make comments like"ughh *look away in a joking dramatic manner* come on mom no one wants to see that" and maybe she'll get embarrassed and stop. If she asks if you hate her say no but you find seeing your own mom nude gross. You don't need to make it awkward to get the point across, plus you could always lock the bathroom door, they put locks there for a reason lol
I can't see the problem with this. My ex had children and she sometimes walked around naked. Even i sometimes walked around naked. It makes life much easier when you are living in a small apartment.
come on there is nothing wrong of ur mom being naked in front of u. my mom some time roam nude in front of us.
There is nothing wrong with being naked, stop being so uptight. Its your mum not a random woman off the street. Do you not see naked women in the changing room at the gym, pool etc.
my mom waked around the house naked too and would do the same things I just moved out when i finished school
I think this is an over dramatic post... If your not comfortable then don't look .. Or move out .... As long as she doesn't push up on you or ask you freaky questions and touch you .. Why should you give a shit if she is naked.... That's her problem if she wants to show her wrinkled ass to the world .... Walking around the house like that... Who knows maybe she feels it's normal just tell her you font like it and if she can please not do it.....
Is your mother an alcoholic? This is pretty typical of women with an addict's insensitivity to boundaries.
Seriously, if she knows you're not ok with this and she won't stop you're being sexually abused. Would it be so different if your dad "accidentally" caught you in the shower - several times?
If you have access to medical care you might consult with a psychologist or addiction medicine specialist to discuss your options. Don't take responsibility for her behavior yourself - you are the less powerful member of this relationship.
Until you have a fix, get a lock on your door and sleep in pajamas. I encountered a similar case a few years ago where Mom decided to "teach" her daughter what it would be like "when a boy goes down on you."
Does your mother ever urge you to go topless, or skinny-dip? Does she ask EXTREMELY personal questions or take an undue interest in whether you're a virgin or if you masturbate? These are things to look out for, too.
Good luck.
lol thanks but my moms not like messed up in the head.. shes just a bit 'free', sort of in a hippy way, and no she doesn't like to drink
If she's truly a hippy then she would know that mutuality is really important here and that just because nudity is not shameful it doesn't mean her son has to be exposed to it - the important message being that you BOTH need to be comfortable in the situation.
Like with anything, if you said no and the other person continued it is not respecting you. Point out once again to your mother that if she wants to be naked she can do it only when she is alone at home, i.e. not in front of you, and that she is not respecting your freedom by invading your privacy.
If she doesn't like that, go see a counsellor like Evilcor said. She might be selectively using 'free spirit' ideology as an excuse for abusive behaviour. Or she might not understand the problem. Either way, you have the right to set boundaries for yourself.
Sorry Ingrid, I assumed you'd be a boy I could be wrong. I also don't want you to stress out. But at the same time I think you're at an age where learning to set safe boundaries is an important skill. Your mother needs to help with that, even if being grossed out by her nudity is just you being 'uptight' it's still your boundary.
What I meant to say was that it should be kicked out of the house. Show her who's the alpha male. Or alpha female .. xD
Or put it out naked on the street. To her, the neighbors make fun of. And it is a great likelihood that a group of Czechs with two meters long dicks rape.
your mother is a FREAK. it's not ok in any way shape or form for a mother to walk around the house naked in front of you. it's considered lewd acts with a child. you cannot expose your genitalia to a child. if i knew you, i would report her for exposing herself. maybe that would knock some sense into her