Is it normal that my mom is so awkward?

I am a 19 year old college student with my first boyfriend. My mom has been awkward through every step in my life. When I was 13 I wanted to shave because I was going on a class trip to a water park and she said no. She would not buy me a bra. I had to buy one and hide it from her so that I could change in PE. She never let me wear a 2 piece bathing suit or a bathing suit without shorts. She seemed so ashamed of me when I got my period. I believe that my awkward years would have been a lot less awkward without her. Now I have my first boyfriend. It took me a while to work up the nerve to tell her, but I finally did. She did not ask about him. She seemed embarrassed. I thought she would call my aunts and tell my dad, but she is keeping it a secret. Now I feel like having a boyfriend is taboo. No one understands what I am going through because to them, my mom seems normal. Is my mom normal?

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21% Normal
Based on 104 votes (22 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • BHolt

    Either she is very sexually repressed (either had a religious upbringing, or maybe abused as a child), or she really wanted a son..

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Mums are awkward that is just how they are.

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    • VioletTrees

      Mine isn't.

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  • hairyfairy

    It sounds to me as if she just can`t stand the thought of you growing up. Maybe it`s because she`s afraid of getting old, or of you leaving home. Either way she will have to come to terms with it somehow, or shel`ll end up driving you away for good.

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  • hafachick

    I'm a mom with a daughter. Her behavior is not normal.

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  • Avant-Garde

    She doesn't sound "awkward" to me. If anything, she sounds like a mix of conservative values and underlying psychological issues.

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  • 2_damgud_4

    Your mum sounds like she has some serious issues .. have you ever sat down and tried to have a serious heart to heart with her making a point to tell her how you feel or why she behaves this way .. ?

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  • lizieralizard

    no, this seems a little bizarre

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  • Everything you're doing is utterly normal. There's no excuse for this kind of behavior on her part.

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  • kelili

    Has she met your boyfriend? Maybe she just doesn't want to embarass you and she is doing it the wrong way.

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  • Thewomanizer

    no this seems strange, maybe you are interpreting her incorrectly??

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  • Xandercrash1

    WTF is wrong with you, you dont bang your brother. get.medical help you sick perv.

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