Is it normal that my mom is absolutly crazy?

My mother is... I cant describe how she is, its a rare condition I think. Somehow crazy and annoying and so unfair. I know some people have bigger problems than this but mine is something too. So here it goes. She wants to be controling the whole house, our whole plans, everything we do, everything we wear. She is full of her self, so stuckup. I cant wear what I want, if I do and she doesnt like it it world war three. She controls me like I'm five, not to mention she hits. Its like she prefers my sibilings on me, they get everything they want. Sometimes we're just sitting silent watching TV or something and she starts shouting and cursing like a maniac. She says we are all lazy and stuff. And she gives so much credit for herself for doing her job, she thinks shes the smartest of all her partners in work. I seriously feel like murdering some one when Im with her, she just makes me so mad, she so critical and cruel! And the other times shes just so nice, but thats only because she wants something. What should I do?? Im gonna seriously have a heart attack, and my sibilings are annoying, and stupid too so thats also kills me plus, my mother problems.

leave her and ignore, soon you'll be out of the house 14
its not normal 8
this is bad, you should move out 5
its normal 6
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  • coolio75650932

    next time she hits you pretend to get knocked out or a heart attack or somthing then she will be like HOLY SHIT I KILLED MY DAUGHTER HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT! oooor you can sue her for physical and mental abuse against kids :l when she thinks your dead get up and make sure you got a ketchup packet for fake blood :3

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  • theabider

    Few people are best friends with their Moms once they enter their teens, or adulthood. So yeah, while it is sad and very unfortunate, it isn't that abnormal. My mom is controlling too. Not violent, but extremely manipulative. So, I'll give you the advice everyone gives me. Grow a backbone. You are old enough to make your own decisions, stand up for yourself, and if need be, move out!

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  • jsnpq

    Your mom isn't really crazy, maybe a little, but really she is just an unstable and meanspirited person. This could have to with many reasons, none of them having to do with you. If you are old enough to leave, then leave. If she hits you and it leaves a mark go to a hospital or a police station and tell them, she'll get the message then.

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  • shefali

    My father is a male replica of your ma. I am just waiting to get a permanent job & get married & move out. But, I worry for my mother.
    I can suggest what I do all the time, I try to act, wear, eat, behave like the way my father wants. I listened to him from one ear & throw it out from the other. You should involve yourself in lots of activities to keep yourself busy & it will lessen your contact with her. Just keep your cool & ignore as much as possible. Being busy is the key for me.
    Hope it works for you too.
    Take Care

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  • Musician

    Ah, Cinderella. Has your Fairy God-Mother not come to visit you yet?

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