Is it normal that my mom favors her kids?

I am the youngest of three boys and one day I was eaves dropping and headered my mom telling my dad that I was her least favorite son and that the middle son was her favorite. I was at first devastated, but now I don't even talk to her. I often act out in school just to get attention. I had always listened to rap, but I actually dress and act like Eminem, because I respect him for succeeding under all of this bullshit. He has become a role model of mine and I hope to one day become famous, but I realize this will probably never happen.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    The thing is, I understand that you have trials at home, but you can't use that as your crutch to misbehave. You are getting a lot of mean comments here, and I know the must be hurtful, but here's the thing about people. We like to help those who are willing to help themselves. It's hard to have sympathy for people who know they have struggles at home and try to use that as an excuse for their rotten behavior? Do you see what I mean.

    I am not being mean to you, I am just telling you the truth. It seems to me like you want people to feel sorry for you, but the thing is, you have to earn sympathy from people, you can't just act a certain way because you have trials. Use your trials to motivate you to do good. Don't do it for your mother, do it for you? What is acting out and seeking attention going to get you? Stop using your tribulations as a crutch and build yourself up. Through my eyes, having hardships and leaning on them as an excuse to act out does not make you a victim. If like Eminem, that's fine. I'm not judging you for that, but the thing about Eminem is, he's made it. He's somewhere. He didn't use his trials as an excuse for why he can't succeed. If you like Eminem, use his success to motivate you. Don't act out.

    Anyway, that is my advice to you.

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    • Nathan11

      Loved your answer,I know it was'nt directed to me,but I had to let you know.It is a very sensible answer.

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      • KeddersPrincess

        Thank you!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Quit Crying and become a MAD scientist and when the cops come to arrest you blame mommy dearest for not loving you.

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  • thoughtfulopt29

    Is isitnormal.com dying from trolls?:(

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  • thanksforthefreecar

    Eminem isn't supposed to be a role model but that's how the world works

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  • Dizzee

    I'm the least favorite too, but I don't act out. It's pointless.

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    • Nathan11

      I agree with you.

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  • sissycakes

    is this jake? because it kind of sounds like you, only i didn't know the story about your mom. that is really sad.

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  • Youngspiffchickhoee

    Eminem is the best <3. Get a good education its your ticket out of that place ! & aye keep your head up & not to be mean but your mom is wrong for that its not like you asked to be born. When you get outta that house tell her how you feel say fuck you hoe .

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  • welkinson

    OK, I am going to attempt to drown myself. You can do it too! You can be just like me!

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  • Nathan11

    I often heard people say a mom should have no favorites among her children,but if she have,she should not say.
    Anyways I will never understand why you decided to rebel against her for having said so. You should question yourself and see what it is that pushed you to act the way you do.In the end you will only do damage to yourself.Like someone said on a previous post. It is pointless.

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  • bedivine

    Is this real life lol?

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  • fluffypuff16

    i mean for eminem to be your role model is...bad. but for your mom to say that is too much.....

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  • Your shit...

    just shit.

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    • Optimist

      This makes no senseO_o

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