Is it normal that my live in boyfriend doesnt like to kiss or hug

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. We met online then in person and have been wonderful. He is 11 years older than me and we have been living together just about two weeks. We were texting back and forwth one night and he told me he didn't like to kiss and touch but to show love. I got upset because I want him to kiss me and touch me and he got mad and asked me wasn't I happy? Didn't he do enough already? I want him to hold my hand in public which he said makes him feel locked down. Every once in a blue moon he'll touch me when we are in the car like hold my hand or put his hand on my leg. He doesn't kiss me except when we are making love or when he's leaving for work. is that normal that he doesn't like that?

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  • sograceful
    12 years ago

    Not to be paranoid but, are you sure he's only seeing you? When a guy is proud of his girl & is happy to have her, usually they love to hold hands or whatever as long as its not too outa hand. Or maybe he's just not an affectionate person.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't think you have a live in bf, it sounds like you have a roommate with some extra benefits on the side

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    Dont b too clingy, girl

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  • brian102
    12 years ago

    Sounds fishy

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    I'm sure he has his reasons. Something bad might of happened to him or he just might not be a overly affectionate person. Some people are like that and are still fully capable of love. Ask him his reasons.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I am 44 yr and had a 18 yr old girlfriend broke up
    with me cause I wanted to kiss ,hug, cuddle
    so i know where your coming from it does hurt
    and No i wasn't looking for sex from her
    even though she would try to get it off me
    i told if we can't kiss ,hug, cuddle i wasn't
    giving her any sex ,It does hurt cause i
    really did love her But good luck~!!!

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    It seems a bit strange to me, having a girlfriend and not taking advantage of having someone to kiss. Did he come up with any reasons? I don't believe that too many people would have a physical aversion to kissing. It's entirely possible for people to have psychological reasons, though.

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  • anti-hero
    12 years ago

    Maybe you have rotten breath and bad B.O.

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