Is it normal that my infatuation feelings dissipated so soon?

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Well here is my situation...i like this girl and told her.I was crushing on her MAD HARD and 2 months later she told me she liked me.Well she didnt really tell me she liked me but i could tell by the way she acted,and the way she talked to me.We're really open to each other cuz she knows i love her(i told her,and honestly i DO SO MUCH).So this is kinda a situation where my love is a one-way love.Anyways back to the point,so after i kinda guessed that she liked me back and had feelings for me i suddenly just felt like i lost interest in her ? But i dont know,its weird cuz im 100% certain i care for her and love her,but i dont know why im not as OBSESSED about her as i was before i ''knew'' she liked me.In the past when she texted me i would be excited as hell,but now when she texts me im still happy,but wont be as excited as last time.This is weird and is killing me ! And here comes another weird part...be prepared... When im not around her i feel like that,but when im around her,my mind just goes crazy and she's ALL i ever focus on,and these thoughts just fly out the window.Suddenly,the passion rages again.

My english sucks,so if u didnt get what i was trying to say,basically im asking is it normal if my feelings dissipate so soon ? And is it normal that i dont feel excited when not around her,but super excited when with her ? Thanks !

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago

    I think that since you know she likes you, you dnt have that excited pulse you used to get when you txtd her. Also when youe with her you feel excited n happy since you know she likes you back(:

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    • 1tzjun
      11 years ago

      Bingo ! Finally someone that understands what I'm trying to get across.Thanks !

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  • valbdreamer
    11 years ago

    "And here comes another weird part...be prepared" lol. Omg.
    that's normal, imo. You were obssesed with her when she didn't liked you (or you didn't know)but by the time she is interested in you, you stopped being so obssesed because, let's tell the truth, man lost interest really easy when the get what they want, and interest seems to be bigger when it's not easy to get it. It's simple. Now that you have her, you still like her but you aren't obssesed anymore. Isn't that situation better than being obssesed? :D

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