Is it normal that my husband still pamper my 17 yr old stepdaughter?

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He practically does everything from doing her laundry, including washing, ironing etc, to picking up after her e.g. the empty packet drink and cheese wrap that she left in his car every morning when he send her to school.

She's 17, she can be out until the wee hours of the morning but she couldn't pick up after herself. I trained my eldest son, who's 11 this yr, to iron his own uniform and my second daughter, who's 7, to scrub her own shoes.

Am I being biased, coz i dont really like the way she talks and behaves anyway, or this is just not normal at all?

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Comments ( 16 )
  • firefly88
    13 years ago

    hating the stepdaughter, how classic.

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Wow, jealous of a 17 yo is pretty sad don't ya think?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You're jealous. Tsk tsk tsk. Sad.

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  • Melloman#2
    13 years ago

    THEY ARE FUCKING EACHOTHER

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    I personally do not agree with any of the above comments. She's only 17 and in high school still. What's the big deal? He does her laundry and picks up after her a little. You didn't mention if he treated your children the same way as well. I think that would make a difference to me. But I don't know that answer. Also what kind of child is she? A good student or bad one? She won't get to enjoy the luxuries of being young for much longer, then comes the long haul of responsibilities so let her enjoy it. It sounds as if you might be slightly pushed out of shape by the attention he gives her. Plus will it cause I'll feelings between you and your husband if you make a big deal out of what I would say is nothing.

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  • Cutie12345
    4 years ago

    U seem jealous and sad.

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  • mrbrownfinger6
    7 years ago

    She's getting something extra from daddy when you're not around

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    Be a bit concerned doing her washing her used dirty knickers bit perverted

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  • Secretstar
    8 years ago

    I think its not really good. She's growing up and she should do her works on her own.

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    • Nutbolt
      8 years ago

      this post is of 5 years back, your suggestion won't help them now

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  • DEATHBRINGER1232
    11 years ago

    You should realy keep an eye on him cause thats massed up!!

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  • seekingcleanfriendship
    11 years ago

    Ok perhaps she is incompetent and he's scared she will break the washing machine.

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  • CaramelChrissy
    13 years ago

    Well it happens to most parents. She's a teenager and when she turns 18 she will probably still think she can do things on her own because she will be legally an adult. You have to set some ground rules. Tell your husband to be more strict. He's spoiling her, making her think she can do what she wants all the time. But you know... the teenage years are the worse.

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  • MarijuAtheist
    13 years ago

    Yeah, she's a spoiled brat.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    little 17 year old girls are anoying you have to dominate her because shel get more and more bitchy if you dont at that age girls think they own everything when they dont know anything so you have to sort her out before she goes into the world that way and gets fucked by lifes ways cause no girl with the attitude of a 17 year old can handle life

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    Your husband seems to be spoiling her. It's too late now, all you can do now is watch and hope for the best. And ofcourse try to keep your younger kids under your jurisduction (as you seem from this story to influence them more positively than your husband can).

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