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Hi everyone! I need some help, I mean some advises.... Is it normal that my husband smokes pot everyday and being so angry to me
he may have another mental issue and pot abates the symptoms. so when he is sober he gets overwhelmed by the unresolved mental issues. people who are not addicted psychologically to pot will only be disappointed when they are out, but not aggressive. if he is a jekle when high and a Hyde when not the hyde i closer to his real personality unless he gets therapy. if he has been smoking daily for years he has years of unresolved issues he has not faced. so when sober he is over bombarded with feelings and residuals of trauma. he actually needs the pot to self medicate his problem.
I don't think the weed is the problem here.... I think you married an asshole. :/
Are you sure those things are even linked? Plenty of people smoke pot without being short-tempered arsefaces, and plenty of people get angry quickly and don't smoke weed.
Does he only get mad at you when he's high? How often does he smoke, how often does he get angry at you? Does he yell at you randomly, or do you sometimes start it or have you ever provoked him (even accidentally)?
I'm all in favour of short, concise stories, but in this case a lot more information is needed.
Sounds like he uses cannabis to keep his temper or stress under control. I know a few peiple like this who seem to be even worse than they would b if they never smoked it at all.
That's what pot can do to a person. I say give him an ultimatum the pot or you! Your worth it for it to be you! If he says the pot. He's not good enough for you anyways!
You could always just remarry that seems to be a growing trend these days. And I know a ton of well off guys that would love a lady down with the herb. Some people are "Entitled" And being mean to you lowers your self esteem thus your less likely to go out and find another man. Its a pattern of the animal kingdom. Assholes usually keep wives. Also with marijuana there are different grades, and if you aren't getting it from medical place of organic growing.You may be getting Radioactive fertilizers and poisons that could be altering his mental state. Rather than the marijuana doing what its thc and canibinoids are suppose to do. Relax and stimulate.
It is surprising that people think pot use is always innocuous but it isn't and you should stand up to your moody husband because he is treating you badly (unless it is unsafe to then you need another plan). Demand respect.
Pot can make me rather irritable the next day. That's why I limit my intake.
You should give the douchebag an ultimatum and if he doesn't cut out both bad habits, kick his ass to the curb!
Being angry with your wife on what seems like a regular basis is not normal. How long has he been smoking everyday?
perhaps try different weed, that may work. I know something it helps and some times it really don't make a difference, but a lot of times it does help.
...Weed chills me out, maybe he's a fucking idiot and should treat you better.