Is it normal that my husband molested our children and didn't get arr?

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I recently found out that my husband has been molesting our 4 children, Ages 8,7,5and 1. For the past 2 years. I called the police and they pulled him over in his yard. He had a loaded gun, a bag of crack cocaine, and he is only probation. They didn't send a ambulance to check my gurls for seamen or to any forensic place to check them. He also has illegal lights and water at his residence. Nothing else mattered. I need an explanation on this entire situation. I dont understand, im believe he may be an informant. I dont have any money or family here. I need help with this matter and fast.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago | pl

    There are a lot of things in this post that are making me angered. So, I'll unleash them and not mince any words.

    1. He molested your kids and you fucking know this yet you aren't getting a divorce, you are still with him and still living with him further exposing your children to him. Like sending lambs out for slaughter!

    2. In most modern countries this is kind of matter is illegal and taken very seriously. Call the fucking cops again and report him! Get a fucking lawyer and divorce him. Take your children to a fucking doctor to be examined instead of thinking that all this will be done by the police.

    (Part one)

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      This is suppose to be done by the police. They are suppose to do an investigation. They are suppose to take him into custody for questioning when she calls the police. They should have sent the police and the ambulance. That is protacal in these type of situations. The fact that they didn't is a fail of the justice system. They are also suppose to do a rape kit on the victems.

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      • GuessWho
        10 years ago

        It really depends where you live.
        For Example:
        In South Africa, a rape case is reported on average every 4 minutes.
        It is believed that only 1 in every 7 rapes are reported in the first place.
        1 in every 3 South African women will be raped at least once at some point in her life.
        How could the relatively small police force possibly keep up with a statistic like that?

        If OP lives in an area where the law is enforced, she should do everything that she can to have him permanently locked up in jail and, failing that, at least keep him away from her children.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    3. Get some sense and be and assume your role as a good parent. You are undermining that sacred act of parenthood by making such stupid decisions. Just like he is being a the worst kind of parent by harming his children and undermining their trust in such a manner.

    Get your kids and yourself away from him. Go stay with competent friends or family and file a restraining order against this bastard. Find a damn good child therapist who specialises in treating patients who have been abused and find a damn good adult therapist who can knocks some sense into you.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Just because you are an informant doesn't mean you are above the law. I think I am smelling troll.

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    • miracle5justice4us
      10 years ago

      Troll?? Im not understanding..

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  • melissa0511
    10 years ago

    wtf? if that were me, he'd already be "taken care of" even if not by the police. are you fucking stupid? MOVE. who cares if you 'can't' yyour children should come first.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You need to get away from him from your kids asap. You are just as bad as he is if you continue to allow this to happen. Put a restraining order on him if your incompetent government does not do anything about it. If he keeps bothering you I would commend you for killing him. Nobody is worse than a child molester and anyone who knows what they are doing and doesn't put a stop to it is just as bad. I hope he dies.

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    • miracle5justice4us
      10 years ago

      I hope he does too..its to the point where he has a high power on this situation. Like he is untouchable or something. There father took care of all of us. I dont have any income or family here. No friends or no hope. I have been Trying to find shelter and nothing has come through. We really need help.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Is he still in contact with the kids? If so it is unacceptable for him to see them for any reason. I don't care what the law says, if he still has contact with your kids and there is no other way you will kill him if you love your children at all.

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        Can't you call your family for help?

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  • chuy
    5 years ago

    That's wrong

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    That's scary and crazy

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    You're asking on the wrong site, but it's at least good to see people trying to help you here.

    I won't personally add anything because what needed to be said has already been said by the other commenters.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    Does he have mental problems? Because just last week my friends neighbor who beats his wife and kids was beating his wife in the parking lot, when a woman tried to stop him, he laid her out, her husband came running at him, he laid him out as well, they called the police, they came, and nothing happened because he has some kind of mental problem.

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  • Justsomejerk
    10 years ago

    What country are you in?

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    • miracle5justice4us
      10 years ago

      Broward county

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      • Justsomejerk
        10 years ago

        Go here:
        http://www.sheriff.org/about_bso/dle/units/child.cfm

        Not here:
        http://m.isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-my-husband-molested-our-children-and-didnt-get-arr-160785/?dl=comment-1570991

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        I actually had to look that up. You know that Florida is the state with the highest number of Pedophiles?

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    So your husband rapes your kids and the cops let him get away with it??? you can't take your kids some were else???

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    • miracle5justice4us
      10 years ago

      i tried to take them else where. Its a jurisdiction issue.

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        "Jurisdiction issue" my ass. You can still be a good parent and take them from this situation regardless of Jurisdiction.

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  • miracle5justice4us
    10 years ago

    I dont understand

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