Is it normal that my husband jokes about anal all the time?
My husband is 15 years older than me he seems very vanilla in the bedroom with me but, constantly is making anal jokes he takes ambien ( prescription sleep aid) once it kicks in right before he passes out he talks about men coming in his ass and mine and lots of anal talk? I am to the point where I dry heave now when he says this. I have asked him multiple times about this in the morning and he tells me to chill and that he is being funny and i do not get a joke? I am sorry as a woman I want to be told that I do it for him? And yes, we have done anal but I am not interested after all this talk and that of which I don't understand.