Is it normal that my husband is cheating on me?

Ohw God! my husband is cheating on me:( what shall i do:( i don't know what to do. i really want to kill my husband and his girl:( help:(

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37% Normal
Based on 59 votes (22 yes)
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  • Oh em gee! My hubby is cheating, quick! Facebook status!

    That is what this feels like.

    Anyway, if he is cheating, confront him and/or leave him. No reason being with someone that is abusing the relationship.

    Obviously do not break the law over this. He may have cheated, but killing them (you are most likely just venting) is not right.

    Communicate with him.

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  • Faceless

    Cheat on him then have a foursome. And only then would two wrongs make a right.

    I'll show myself out. Yet again.

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  • kelili

    You should confront him - tell him that you know that he is cheating and that you are not going to tolerate the situation any longer. Some couples survive problems like that. Communication is the key.

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  • Imsupernormal

    All men cheat on women. Its normal.

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    • Terence_the_viking

      I love people who stereotype.

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      • All real men do.

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        • Terence_the_viking

          That why i love you.

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          • purrrrrr, puuurrr.

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            • Terence_the_viking

              Can i tickle your belly :)

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  • this is the first time that he had cheated on me. it really hurts. i really do love him:( i don't know what to do, he still don't explain:(

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  • NeonLighterz

    Men cheat, it's in their nature. What is not normal is that you are continuing this marriage.

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  • blossom519

    i would go over that bitchs house bring a bat start hitting them both with it thenwhen your husband come to pack his bags boil some oil and pour it on him .

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  • ohh! am i so stupid to forgive him? after all that he has done to me, i had forgiven him. i didn't plant any anger or hate in my self when i figured out that he is cheating, i just felt hopeless and ruined. i just cried all night . i texted him and ask him if why he did that to me, he simply said 'your the one who cheated first, so, were fair now. and i did that because i just want to be updated' i felt like, he don't love me anymore, i cheated him last year but, he already forgiven me, but, why did he cheat now? i thought we're okay, i was wrong:( it really hurts. and i asked him again about that, he didn't reply. i said that i will leave him, then he replied 'won't you stop? i said i'm sorry. that won't happen anymore' he was so angry at me then. It was so disappointing.

    Am i so stupid? or i just love him, that's why i had forgiven him? i feel so stupid.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Light his ass on fire.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I don't normally suggest this but if you can hire a Private Investigator to prove it then take the pictures to a divorce lawyer and that guy will probably see dollar signs in his eyes as he takes your husband to the cleaners and you get half his shit.

    Or, you can do the amiable thing and confront him, attempt to get counseling and repair your marriage. Marriage counselors often say that an overwhelming majority of marriages can survive infidelity if both partners are willing to do the work that obviously the cheating partner wasn't willing to do BEFORE the affair... Often times, affairs can be treated as wake-up calls to call the other spouse to action and the case is usually that the cheating spouse was dissatisfied with the relationship and not being taken care of at home by his or her spouse. Making the appropriate adjustments to your daily routine (which can grow stale in even a great marriage!) and learning to forgive can make your relationship stronger than it ever was before!

    But if THAT doesn't work, refer to paragraph 1.

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  • redtruck

    Beat the girl ass badly and then go beat the shit out of your husband with a stick >:D well that's what I'll do ..

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  • bigfatpoo

    go to give him oral

    and bite his fucking bell off LOL

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  • MissClaire

    I cant tell you that he is or isnt obviously. Be careful confronting him when you dont feel you have enough evidence or justification; cos that can change a relationship's vibe.
    When you do decide to confront him, make sure that you are prepared to deal with him not giving 2 fucks about how you feel - if he is cheating, there is the possibility that he has already moved on (mentally).

    Take care of yourself first, know what your going to do with that information once it is layed out.
    - are you going to leave, if so, where?
    - can you support yourself? Family/friends?

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