Is it normal that my husband has sex with me when am asleep

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I desperately need advice my husband owns his own construction business and has lately picked up one of his biggest contracts to date. So he has been working long hours getting things done. I am very proud of him but i have been having a problem. He gets home really late by which time i am already asleep. However instead of waking me to make love he has started having sex with me while i am asleep. I am so confused, what does this mean? I am so afraid to bring it up and talk to him about it, so one night i pretended to be asleep to try and find out what was going on, he got in bed, called my name a couple off times and when i did not answer he simply got on me, pulled my underwear aside and entered me, no kissing, no fondling nothing, it was a bit painful but i kept pretending to be asleep, soon it was over. He got up went to the bathroom, returned to bed and went to sleep. I am so confused. This cannot be normal, how can i confront him.

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  • biggdongg25
    14 years ago

    Yes it is normal I fuck my wife all the time when she sleeps...it would be kindda mean to not lube her pussy a little bit first though..lol.. or give her a kiss or something... and when I do I fuck her very gentle..and she cums a lot!! But I fuck her from behind not on top of her...I've even fucked her asshole when she slept and it felt great!!!!

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  • insomniac45
    8 years ago

    What is wrong with you people,there is nothing wrong with this.i been married for 18 years.i love fucking my wife while she sleeps.if she wants to wake up for it,fine but she has told me if im horny,and she just wants to sleep,then just do it and get done.some of you uptight ediots call this rape...damn im glad i have a great wife that wants me to be happy sexually even if she is a little tired.i have no reason to cheat,or anything because i love my wife and reading this article makes me love her even more.we have a great exciting sex life,but just 2 nights ago,we had been drinking.we started kissing,four play and she slowly starts going to sleep.needless to say,i never stopped.the next morning,she gets up outa the bed and my stuff goes dripping out and running down her leg,and we both just laughed and had sex again.this is just how a loving wife keeps her man happy and healthy.you people calling this rape is probly the reason for infedelity and why you cant keep a man or woman.

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    • suzyanna
      8 years ago

      I agree, if he's horny and needs a fuck then isn't it better that it's his wife's pussy he's in and not someone else's? I wouldn't have a problem with my husband fucking me in my sleep I've often woke up in the middle of the night with his cock in me and sometimes I just go back asleep and let him pump away.
      It is a good way also to stop your man cheating by letting him fuck you when he's horny it keeps your marriage hot and besides how can you not enjoy a middle of the night sex session????

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  • captblood44
    9 years ago

    maybe he tried to wake you in the beginning, but you didn't wake up. or maybe he did wake you up, but you started whining and throwing a hissy fit. what choices are there: 1: you should get divorced and he can bang someone else. 2: since you didn't give consent, have him arrested for rape, labeled a sex offender for life and you continue on your merry way. 3: let him have sex with a sex provider on the way home. 4: tell him no more sex when you're sleeping and don't wake you up, lets see him deal with that. don't be surprised on how he deals with it. 5: fuck his brains out before he goes to work, so he's not horny when he gets home. 6: let the status quo continue, ask him to fondle you and kiss you before he starts, leave lube tube on his side of the bed with a note to please use it 7: talk to him and tell him to wake you up, no matter what it takes. when he does wake you up, don't whine, just enjoy

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  • Wildcat123
    6 years ago

    My husband and I enjoy doing this often, so its normal for US. We fuck each other while the other one is sleeping. I am a heavy sleeper so I hardly ever wake up.

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  • gamerdad
    2 years ago

    my ex-wife used to let me fuck her while she was asleep she used to hate the idea of me jacking off she always wanted me to please myself with her and it was the most amazing part of our relationship she gave herself to me 100% and I did the same. now my current relationship I have been in for 2 years and my girlfriend does not let me do it under any circumstances I respect her but let us just say I never forgot about my ex I don't cheat but my wet dreams are of my ex and not my current so ladies if you want to own your man mind body and soul, don't be a prude and guys be gentle wet it 1st before you stick it in lol when it all comes down to it its communication and I honestly can't see it as rape if you have been together for years and have done shameful acts with each other like every normal couple does I eat my girl ass out she eats mine now how could we stand in front of a judge and be like she/he raped me if you don't love the person you are with enough for that maybe they are not the right one just my point of view I am sure there are billions.

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  • oneifthesedays1980
    12 years ago

    That's just wrong. Im a guy and you may as well fuck a dead person. Never the less how degrading and immoral. Why would he be afraid to wake you?? I don't know why but this topic infuriates me. I have tried waking my wife before if she wont wake up to bad so sad. That's rude what a PIG!!!!!!

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  • Pinkstwabewies
    12 years ago

    This is not normal because you never gave consent to let him have sex with you while you are asleep.

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  • pay2play
    12 years ago

    Total wishful thinking on your part. I can't believe he's that dumb to think you would not wake up. Even bob the builders not that dumb. Perhaps you think he's in the erection Bussines? Or wish he was!!

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  • Rose83
    13 years ago

    Confront him and ask him what you can do to help. Let him know how you feel and that you want him to be able to be pleased but that something different must be done.

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    How can he possibly think you sleep through that? Does he think you're in a coma, for chrissake? Confront him, pronto. That's creepy as hell.

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