Is it normal that my husband finds my love an obsession?

Awww, I wish a women woud love me like you love your husband. You sound lovely.

youre not obsessed... thats true love right there. its beautiful. he should cherish it!!

dont think you are obsessive in the least.. think he just has it to good and shouldnt take the love you have for him for granted..it can all quickly fall away,...

do yourself a favour.. hit the town with your lady friends.. on regular basis.. dress up, look hot! and let him know just how perfect you are everytime you walk out that door.. hey it helped when my Fiance did it to me.. she persisted and now i cant keep my eyes/hands off her..

good luck there!

you should tell that douche bag that he should be damn proud and lucky to have someone like you who still loves him like crazy and gives him everything. My bf is like ur husband, we have only been 2 and a half years together and not even remotly close to as long as u have been together

you tell him to stop being such a pussy and to start being more affectionate... its not fair on you. He does not feel like u do because u give him all the love that he needs... maybe you should try turning the tables around... see if you can resist being less loving and affectinate for a week at least and see if he notices and if he starts saying..oh whats wrong with u, why are u not as affectionate as you use to be... turn around and say... now you know how it feels

Your not obsessed, your in love with a man.

I see two problems here. Perhaps the two of you have different personalities as far as how much attention you need. I love my boyfriend to death, but I also need time for myself, alone and with girlfriends. It's just something that, as a person, I need. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be with someone all the time, as long as it's something that is understood and ok with both of your personalities/needs.

That being said, I also find it concerning that you state you're always "begging" for affection. Even if you spend time apart, you shouldn't feel like you need to beg for your partner's attention. Like I mentioned, I like time to myself, but I make sure my b/f knows he's the man and I love him when we're together. You shouldn't feel neglected in your relationship either.

I think you both need to sit down and find a happy medium where, he gets some alone time if that's what he needs, but that you also feel secure in the relationship.

Can you give an example situation where he says you are being obsessive?