Is it normal that my heart is literally shattered into pieces?

My boyfriend dumped me and now I'll
Never feel the same again. My heart is literally broken I think and I think I'll die

Advice?

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78% Normal
Based on 58 votes (45 yes)
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Comments ( 22 )
  • Jesusandhelp

    I think you mean figuratively. As in, you're so sad that its like your heart has been ripped apart.
    If you actually mean literally, then I suggest talking to a doctor about your collapsed heart. Maybe a scientist to ask why you're still even alive.
    Just a thought.

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  • Budda

    dont say literally because your hearts not actually broken

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  • CrumpledPaper

    Your hearts not literally broken, you would be dead if it was.

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  • FocoUS

    Was he your first?

    You need to look in the mirror tell yourself to get the fuck over it. There are billions of people out there that have had there hearts broken just like you the difference is they keep going with their lives. So dry your tears, say "Fuck him!" and then go out into the sunlight. (Assuming you've been staying indoors out of sadness)

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  • DannyKanes

    Dappled is right, you should listen to Dappled :-)

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  • dappled

    Very little feels worse. I've been in pieces at relationship break-ups. It seems like the end of the world. Everything has gone. Your future is suddenly unknown; a dark place. You grieve for the relationship like you grieve for a dead family member. But this pain is necessary. It's part of healing. It's part of getting you back on track. Don't think of it like the end of the world. Think of it as particularly sour medicine that is slowly making you better.

    You will get past it. I promise.

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  • zchristian

    If your heart really was broken you would be dead alredy so be happy...

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  • Budda

    bitch

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  • ggeineg

    Normal to feel like that. But listen to me.. This is the most important thing u need to know, ready? ... You will be okay, just give it some time. Time heals everything. I know that's cliche but I tell u it's true. Just keep your head up sweetie! He doesn't deserve u. You'll be okay

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You'll be in pain for a few weeks maybe some months.

    you'll read fanfics that appeal to your wounded heart

    and day by day you'll walk down the path that leads you out of darkness.

    it may take time but... you will get through it.

    almost every woman has gone through this or will go through it.

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    • sunny_wantsome

      Atlast one nice advice to the young girl

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  • Shrunk

    lol stop being a drama queen and go learn the meaning of some words... you are probably like 14 so you wont understand but there is always some one who has it worse than you so try to be grateful for what you do have instead of whining over what you don't. I know you thought it was special but obviously he did not feel the same way... there is always time to find the right one

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  • JBN

    A literal broken heart? You should seek immediate medical help if you have a ripped heart. It is fatal. I hope you didn't bleed to death.

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  • tcarr50

    Really so LITERALLY your heart just burst into a bunch of pieces. Wow how did you live long enough to type this

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  • Dot123

    Listen I know it's very hard for someone you liked or maybe loved to break your heart. But just let time heal you and you will start feeling better in time, try to keep your mind off of it.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Relax. I know it hurts, but in time I'm sure you'll meet someone else and probably forget this guy even existed.

    Going by your title I though you heart was actually "broken" and you were coughing up pieces.

    Do something fun, but nothing reckless.

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  • Fartz4Pleasure

    Emo fag

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    • Sexy Emo! Woohoo!

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  • joybird

    You need to get arrogant and realise it was his loss!

    This just opens the door for a new man to enter.

    Give it a few months and you won't remember his name.

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  • AnonymousCanada

    so your (ex) boyfriend LITERALLY ripped a hole through your chest, pulled out your heart, froze it and smashed into a bunch of pieces? LEARN WHAT LITERALLY MEANS DUMBFUCK. i dont care if you got dumped, thats no reason to not know how to use the word literally.

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  • SoccerStud88

    suck another dick and get on with it.

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    • JBN

      I would love to, know anyone?

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