Is it normal that my guy friend and i argue after experimenting?

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I am 19, and have had sexual identity issues for the last 5 years or so. I have wanted to experiment with another guy by jerking off in front of or even with him. I met a friend this past September. We became close especially after our relatives died. Anyway,I saw him every 2 weeks afterward. One night I admitted that I was unsure if I was gay. He felt the same. We cuddled. 2 weeks later, we cuddled again and kissed. He admitted later on over text that he felt nothing. I am extremely pissed and have been crying daily. We argue a lot about this but we both think we blame each other wrongfully. Is it normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The way I see it is... you were unsure and he thought he was as well, which is fine for both of you. However, I believe you invested yourself more in him emotionally than you should have.

    But neither of you is to blame. It's not his fault he feels nothing romantically or otherwise and it's not your fault that you do or otherwise.

    I don't think you should be angry at him for not feeling the same, you were both experimenting and the results are different for the both of you. However, what I do believe you can take from this, is the fact that you obviously are attracted to other males in some way, so you at least know that now.

    But don't blame each other, you experimented and that's that.

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