Is it normal that my girlfriends boss texts her all the time?

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So... I was in the Marine Corps and I saw the shadiest things guys would do to get girls. Were pretty sneaky. Well My girlfriend and I have been dating for a month and everything seems to be great. But her boss is always texting her. She always texts him. She got kicked out (Before I came along) of her moms house and he put her up in a hotel room. He texts her in the morning when she wakes up, and her the same (Not everyday). We were on a date and she called him at dinner to tell him about her trying to get an apartment. They needed a co-signer and he offered to do it! It was at this point I drew the line. I've never met a guy who is this nice and never had feelings for a girl, or tried to sleep with them. But I'll be damned if every text he sends is the most well intentioned. He did make sexual comments in the past but she told him no and to stop, and he has ever since. (Some months back.) I know guys, I am one. He's had heart to heart conversations about his family to her and asked her to meet him for lunch so he can talk about his problems. Which she has done. She openly tells all of this to me, and doesn't hide any of it. But... I'm at a loss for this one. Normal?

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    He'll swoop in if you two break up guy

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  • DeAmOn
    10 years ago

    Your a marine...do some recon... I'm sure you'll find the answer.

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    • leonlecouer
      10 years ago

      I have been. He even asks how I'm doing!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    No it's not especially if it isn't work related.

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    • leonlecouer
      10 years ago

      Apparently he is that way with all his female employees.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        give him a fart in a jar.

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  • Elliemental
    10 years ago

    Sounds like they have a good relationship whether that's friendship or something more is a mystery, after a month do you really have any reason to mess with her friendships, you can tell her how you feel but if you trust her that should be enough!

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    • leonlecouer
      10 years ago

      I did, turns out shes aware. Several of her friends have pointed this out. He's late 30's and she isnt interested. Thanks!

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  • DeAmOn
    10 years ago

    Brah,you'll find some proof that he's intentions aren't so pure. I'm sure he is slowly working his way into her pants or they are already doing it. Creditcard records...check. If she's bought new lingerie and you haven't exactly seen her in it or if she starts wearing a different perfume without trying it with u first. If she places her phone face down after receiving a text. If u know her well you'd have picked up on her 'tells' by now. If anny of them show...its time to pay her boss a visit. Your a marine. My advise would be to get a couple of buddies. Grab him when he comes to his car at work. Scare the shit out of him...your a guy figure it out without killing the guy. Just be careful that he doesn't fire her.

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  • dandan1960
    10 years ago

    Her boss is just waiting for the moment you and your girlfriend have a fight and she needs a shoulder to cry on. Grab the phone and tell that low-life boss of hers to back off. If she defends him over you and doesn't see him as a threat to your relationship then dump her and move on.

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  • Stairy
    10 years ago

    Then do your efford, make some money, give her a better life.She didn't asked you but asked her boss while she need an apartment, didn't you feel a little sad? Please grow up

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  • sickonine
    10 years ago

    Go and tell him to stop talking to her or you'll fuck him up. Trust me, this guy would just about do anything to fuck or date your girl, so if you broke up he would chip in. Happened to me before.

    Else, make her change her job.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    My boss texts me /: he's 30 something... It makes me a little uncomfortable...

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    • Wh0Ar3YoU
      10 years ago

      is she hot though?

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      • gummy_jr
        10 years ago

        Since when was a "he" a "she"

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        • Wh0Ar3YoU
          10 years ago

          oh shit, didnt see dat. Hes probably gay and trying to hook up

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          • gummy_jr
            10 years ago

            That**

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    Sounds like she is special and has very large heart! But you are right, his intentions have not always been honorable, but hers seem like they are. So work on putting a little distance between them very slowly, she seems like she is worth the trouble!

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Sounds pretty sus Brah.

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  • Elyod88
    10 years ago

    What line of work is she in?

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  • Darkoil
    10 years ago

    Nah he is trying to bang her in the shadiest, gayest, rapeyest way possible.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Sounds like he's the only help she has right now. Unless you've been together long term and/or can give her a place to live, i wouldn't make a big deal about it. It's possible he's making advances and she might well be using him, but it's not yet your place to do anything about it unless you're prepared to support her yourself. Have you met this guy? What are your girlfriends thoughts on the situation?

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    • leonlecouer
      10 years ago

      We talked and she is aware. She doesnt think he likes her but I'm not the first to point it out to her. She told me he really is this friendly, but with all the employees. I havent met him yet, I'm sure I'll bump into him at her work.

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      • myboyfriendsbitch
        10 years ago

        Just keep your eyes open and don't let her take advantage of you.

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