Is it normal that my girlfriend wants to have a homosexual child?

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So, first of all, I am a guy. Me and my girlfriend are psychology students and we focused a lot of our studies in homosexuality. We have many homosexual friends and we ourselves have experimented with alternative sexualities. I think that we both understand quite well how hard it is to be "not-straight".

However, we seem to have different views on the issue. I don't mind having homosexual friends or to deal with homosexual issues all the time, but I honestly just prefer to have good doses of normalcy as well. My girlfriend on the other hand is obsessed with homosexuality, she just wants to be the Fag Hag Queen or something like that.

The most shocking thing I heard from her is that she has kids, she wants them to be homosexual as well. I definitely don't consider myself homophobic... but I would never wish my children to be like that. Whether we like it or not, being heterosexual is just less dramatic for someone's life. I wouldn't want my child to suffer because of this issue.

And well, I just came here for opinions... so... what do you think?

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Did she give a reason? I'd be curious to know why.

    I think this kind of thing can be a sort of inverted prejudice; when someone lumps all gays together as some homogenous (no pun intended) demographic their views are often based on presumptions and ignorance.

    For example, people who say "Oh gays are so fun! I love gays! I want a gay best friend!"

    It's as ridiculous as saying "Oh gays are so boring! I hate gays! I could never have a friend who was gay!"

    Neither account for the fact that the only thing gay people have in common by default is their sexual orientation. That's it. Everything else is as diverse as the rest of society. It's as bad as saying "Oh black people are so fun! I love blacks! I want a black best friend!" or the reverse.

    Actually my white friend told me recently that she'd like to adopt a black baby. I asked why, and she said "because black babies are the cutest." What kind of dumb fucking reason is that?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Well, she says that she just wants to make them feel accepted. Yet, I just believe that it would be better if they didn't even need to struggle with acceptance to begin with.

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      • RyanDeao
        9 years ago

        sounds like she might be using you for her cause some people do this like racism many adults influence to a point that could be considered brainwashing

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      • disthing
        9 years ago

        Weird - sounds like quite a selfish desire to me.

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  • Ugluk
    9 years ago

    why would she want a sexual pervert/degenerate for offspring?

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Why would anyone want to inflict that form of stigma on their child? What would she do if it turns out not to be gay?

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    • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
      9 years ago

      She'll throw it off a cliff like the Spartans of old.

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago

    Well I think your wife might have a fetish. A lot of people have a homosexual fetish. She might have developed it because she likes the abnormal and probably would see your child as a study project.

    She probably would love them but be obsessed with studying them at the same time. You don't want a homosexual child because you know they will be rejected and picked on and that is a very valid concern you have.

    Though no one is entirely sure what causes homosexuality. There has for years been the debate that its in your genes, its a mental dysfunction, its a mutation to make us stop breeding.

    Now anytime the discussion of what homosexuality is or where it comes from is brought up anyone who is not for the majority is usually shut up and shut down.

    So you cant try and figure it out since society wont let you. I personally don't think homosexuality matters either but I don't think it occurs for the same reason or from the same place as heterosexuality. There has even been problems with the "Born this way" idea. Since genes have to be passed on heterosexually.

    So neither one of you can really bank on "I am going to have a straight child" vs "I am going to have a gay child". Since society doesn't want us to figure out where homosexuality comes from. They simply want us to follow whatever they spoon feed us about the subject. So just love your child no matter what.

    They will thank you for it later. Be good parents and help your child succeed. That is really all you could do for them. Maybe even you'll get something different and they will reject the notion of sex all together even. You cant really tell till they hit puberty and when they do they will need you there for them. So just be supportive no matter what.

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