Is it normal that my girlfriend wants me to punch her?
I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for just over a year now and I’ve fallen madly in love with her. I try my best to please her in bed, but it’s becoming more difficult. She has what one might call an alternative lifestyle, with a strong interest in the occult and the morbid. She’s really rough and wild in bed, which can be (and has been) exciting, but the other day she asked me to hit her. Not like the usual passionate bite or scratch, but a punch in the face. I flat out refused. I said I’d do almost anything she wants, but I could never hit her. Since then she’s been really off towards me and I feel that she may be getting bored because I can’t fulfill her desires. I’m completely in love and don’t know what to do.