Is it normal that my girlfriend wants me to do this?
My girlfriend wants me to rape her. She said that she wants it to be a surprise and to force her to have sex even if she isnt in the mood at the time? Is this something I should indulge?
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My girlfriend wants me to rape her. She said that she wants it to be a surprise and to force her to have sex even if she isnt in the mood at the time? Is this something I should indulge?
I want to say no...because that honestly sounds like rape and personally I'd be scarred of hurting her. Plus I wouldn't want to play a rapist, that's just sick.
It's called rape-play and is fairly common, really! I enjoy it myself and if you truly have this kink you get turned on like crazy from it! It's not to be compared to real rape since his GF would be consenting. BUT she should be given a safe-word so that she can alert him if she changes her mind.
I would say have a game plan as in trying to surprise her with sex and then maybe pin her down. so not rape but taking charge. so compromise to make it less of a real rape. or get hand cuffs/blindfolds. that could be something exciting she may like. but I think that what you have said she wants is alittle to far and if you all ever broke up she could be the girl who cries rape. because sadly some girls are crazy like that. Ok shutting up. Hope this helps :)
Just make sure you set up a safe word ahead of time in case things get a little too intense.