Is it normal that my girlfriend treats me like garbage if i annoy her?

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Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years now, we're both 22, and we were also best friends for 2 years. When we were friends, and first started dating this was never an issue, but for the last couple years on and off she'd spaz out on me. An example I told her I was going to clean up the apartment, and not go to the gym, because her brother asked me to go, but while she was at work I decided to go to the gym he wanted me to go. Well when she gets out of work she calls me a liar, and a scum bag for going to the gym, because "I'm obviously checking out all the girls", because I never used to work out. She then continues to say things like "how was looking at all the girls asses at the gym? at work I was drooling over the thought of these sexy dudes cocks, I'm horny I wish you weren't only 7.5 inches.". After a few hours she'll calm down and be the sweetest girl ever though, but it doesn't always last long.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I would leave her. That type of emotional abuse should not be tolerated by anyone.

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  • Jeaneathean
    9 years ago

    I think I'd walk away from that. These things don't get better, only worse over time in my experience.

    You need to ask yourself how much unreasonable behaviour you are prepared to tolerate.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    Well im not sure why you cant go work out?
    However you did lie to her and should have kept your word...
    im not sure if she is treating you like "garbage"... more so she is making a mountain out of a mole hill.
    try to be more honest in your relationship

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    My girl does the EXACT same thing, I fell asleep the other day instead of cleaning her apartment while she was at school. She came home and found me asleep on the couch and started screaming at me, calling me a liar, and accusing me of bringing someone over to her apartment to fuck while she was gone. Then she'll try to make me jealous and say some uber messed up shit. Then like an hour later, she's fine. But she's diagnosed bipolar and takes antipsychotics and stuff. She'll make the most gigantic deal out of the smallest things and it'll just snowball because my pride doesn't let me bend to behavior like that.

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  • Dittto
    9 years ago

    I understand I'm a moron for that, but is it okay for things like that to be said to someone you love?

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    • reminiscent
      9 years ago

      people tend to say things they dont meen when they are upset.

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