Is it normal that my girlfriend recurrently dreams about dumping me?

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Ok folks, here's the deal. My gf and I have been dating for over two months . Off recently she's been having weird dreams about me lusting her, or even me getting dumped in different scenarios in different dreams(and its always my fault in the dream) what I want to know is, is this some kinda fear she has ? Because I know she loves playing it safe. She's been like that since day one because she's seen a lot of people get hurt by failed relationships and so on. But our relationship is beautiful And in fact we like each other very much. Tell me what you guys think the reason is behind all this.

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  • Vanguard
    11 years ago

    That's her insecurities coming out. You could try reassuring her before she sleeps

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  • DandyElfman
    10 years ago

    It means she wants to break up with you. She might be ignoring the dreams but subcutaneously she really really wants to. I use to have dreams like this about other things and it went away when the issue was gone. So your relationship is an issue for her. Something is not working out and she does not want to be with you anymore.

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  • dirtytalk
    11 years ago

    it means she is afraid you will break up with her one day. it means she has been thinking about it a lot recently. if you think of cheeseburgers all day for 2 weeks you will start to dream of cheeseburgers every night

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Talk openly about what each of you truly want from each other. If you're both truly happy together celebrate it (if it doesn't work out in the end - yes it will hurt I'm afraid - but amazingly love always comes around again when you least expect it). If she has any form of doubt or worry on how she feels about the relationship then either solve the problems between you or let each other go for the sake of you're own happiness's.

    2 months is quite a short time to have been together, and It sounds like she's so happy with you that she worries you'll leave her and she'll be heart broken. If you're truly happy with her (taking her for all her good and bad habitats that everyone has)then reassure her that. Just carry on as you are and time will help her. Be patience with her, but I'm sure if you;re really into her that much as it sounds like you are that won't be a problem :) Good lucks!

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I don't know about the dream, but I'd wonder about why she told you about it. Seem like she's either trying to set you up for what she already knows she's going to do, OR, and this should be more troubling, she's using it as a threat in order to keep you under control. Think about it.

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