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I'm a freshman and I have been with my girlfriend for 3 weeks now. and she said that she loves me already. what should I do? we were texting a couple nights ago and she was like "what you wanna be when you grow up" and I said "in the military why?" And she said" for future references. because you might be the one for me. :)" OMG What should I do?
| should i say i love her back | 11 | |
| should I be suspicious | 2 | |
| should i be worried | 13 | |
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Explain to her very sensitively that, whilst you think she is beautiful and you have strong feelings for her, it would be dishonest to say you are in love with her. Also say that you want to take things slow, because there's no rush and if you're meant to be together in the future then you'll be together.
Love is timeless. You don't fall in love at a set time it can happen any time.
Just in case any of you come back to this story.....thank you for all your help. we have now been together for about three,four months now. But im deciding to end it. But thank u for all ur opinions and help. Ive also told her i loved her because...well she threw a fit on the phone. '_'
But thanks talk to u all soon
If she is a freshman as well, I'm going to guess she doesn't really realize the depth of what she's actually saying. Hell, most people are absolutely convinced they love cake. The word has lost a lot of the seriousness that it should have.
Basically, don't take it too seriously. I think she's too young to really tell if she actually is the crazy type.
Maybe I'm just too old fashion or european, but isn't love kind of the foundation of a relationship? You should just tell her the truth - Whatever it is.
You know I thought that to. And I asked her wat kind and she said idk the kind parents have but I was to like I don't know how I felt. But I just changed the subject. Should I just ignore it?
I'd always recommend honesty. If she asks you and you don't know how you feel, then tell her you need time to think about it. Then take that time and try finding out what you want.
But if she doesen't bring it up again, she might not have been too serious about it in the first place.
Oh my... I think she's rushing things and if I were you I'd be worried. What if she turns obsessive? I think three weeks is too soon to say,"I love you", though, sometimes people can just feel that the person they are with is "The One". It would be a whole other story if the two of you had known each other for a long time or loved each other from afar, etc. I think you should calmly take her aside or tell her in a public place (not your school) that you think she's taking things a tad to fast and that its making you very uncomfortable.
I don't know she seems like she is being a little too quick with you. Maybe u need to let her know how u feel and that u think it's moving too fast...
Is there a certain rule about when a person should tell you they love you? Be happy she loves you and doesn't hate you after three weeks. I think it is nice and cute that she thinks you may be the one. My girlfriend and I feel the same way about each other and now the trust issues I used to deal with are slowly going away. It is nice to be loved and love back. Only tell her you love her only if you actually feel that way.
if it makes you uncomfortable, tell her. god knows she might change her mind/ preference/ blah when you guys are older. but it doesn't hurt to have what you guys have now.
or maybe she's joking? she could've been teasing you when she said that. :I
or sounded dead serious?