Is it normal that my girlfriend likes seeing her scars?
She self-harms because she worries too much about people and these worries always seem to take over her. She never cuts deep but she wants to see the blood flow, last time she wrote "fuck up" on her arm because she thinks that she ruins everything. I was with her today and I checked her hand to see the scars and she said " I wish I can cut again." she looked at them and said " I like seeing them there" and then she started crying.
is it normal that she likes seeing her scars? Is there anything I can do to help her?