Is it normal that my girlfriend left me for someone else?

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So, this happened about a year ago, i got over it, but none of my friends gave me a clear response.

We were having a rough time since she started studying and i was working, we both were really stressed out, i sometimes wanted to talk to her and she would say stuff like she has too much work, we couldn't even go out anymore because of that.
So, she met this guy through her friends, she told me at first he was just a friend and he was helping her with her homework, although she told me he was getting flirtious (like what the fuck), i obviously got jealous and offered myself to help her out instead since (even though i dropped out) i understood what she was studying, she told me to fuck off since i dropped out and shit, after that day we had lots of heated arguments, she ended up breaking up with me, but after we broke up she kept flirting with me which i felt really weird and confused about, after a week or something i found out she was going out with that guy, and since she was just playing with me i decided to just stop talking to her. Sadly i got so down i quitted job and lost half a year on bed.

So, waddya think? I really appreciate comments.

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  • flavoured-queen
    5 years ago

    I feel like if it’s hurting you that much you should do something about it. But to me it sounds like she’s done with you. Just move on even tho it sounds so tough.

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  • isitnotmal
    5 years ago

    If she's young she's probably too immature to understand commitment and the other guy was probably just better in her opinion, at least during that time.

    Kinda happened to me as well. My ex broke up with me about 8 months ago after a 4 year relationship which shortly before she did I caught her texting to some guy instead of talking to me multiple times (but never said anything). After we broke up I made a plan to change myself for the better and worked on getting her back for seven months. Turns out during that time she had a relationship with the person she was texting with for two months, then he broke up with her (lol!).

    We actually even hooked up after multiple dates and lately she seemed very interested in me. A few weeks ago while at my birthday party she hooked up with one guy and right after that flirted with another. I decided she was too immature to understand relationships at all and am now looking for someone better to find.

    People like these need rejection in their life to see the mistake they made. Maybe in a few months (for sure in a few years) your ex will see that she screwed up and what she lost.

    Just keep working on yourself to become the best version of yourself, don't be clingy and show her that your life is great without her. For more tips I suggest you just google whatever you want to know. It works, but if, like my ex, she's too immature to grasp it, she won't get it up until she's mature enough to see that her lifestyle isn't good.
    Good luck!

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    • Track0011
      5 years ago

      Thanks for taking your time to write that reply heheh

      that was my first thought when all of this happened, we were going through a though time and she just wanted "fun" and entertainment and i just wasnt in the mood since she was treating me like shit and i wasnt in the mood.

      the guy she's with now, started flirting with her and, well, literally throwing roses to her while we were arguing.

      i think he started to talk shit about me to her, and she believed him, shit, one of my friends actually spoke to him and he asked if i was "good enough" for her. got me really angry because he was a fucking leech, but angrier because she fell for it. Actually, it happened with several guys before but we werent in such a bad situation when that happened.

      but, yeah, i know what you mean

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Definitely not acceptable behaviour. Good riddance. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

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