Is it normal that my girlfriend left me for a guy who beats her to death?

I was away for a few months due to work, and she got lonely and found herself a sex friend. However, it was like going down the rabbit's hole and she found herself always prostrating herself in front of him naked and afraid that he may not love her back if she doesn't.

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56%Β Normal
Based on 9 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • Nickvey

    just tell her its none of your business and you dont need to hear it. end of story

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  • Boojum

    It sounds like an abusive relationship, and maybe that is what she believes she wants and needs, but I think things could be even more twisted.

    It's possible he's a highly manipulative psychopath who has managed to push all the right buttons to make her believe the relationship is what she needs. Once you've been sucked in to a relationship with someone like that, you can lose all objectivity. Psychopaths have the ability to basically grind your self-respect down and take over all control of your life. Once that happens, leaving the person can be an unbearably painful prospect. Think of it as being in a tiny cult where the single member has been thoroughly brainwashed to worship the cult leader and believe everything he says.

    As you say, it is indeed like being sucked down a rabbit hole to a new reality.

    If there is physical abuse involved, I'd suggest you speak to the police about your concerns. If the local domestic violence unit knows their stuff, they will know how to deal with situations where the abused person isn't complaining about the abuse. They have probably dealt with similar cases before. They may even have dealt with the man before.

    I know she's your ex and so you may feel she's not really your responsibility, but consider how you'd feel if you did nothing and things escalated to the point where he injured her seriously or even killed her.

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    • WhoIsNormalAroundHere

      Thanks for the suggestion. I'll see where it goes from here.

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  • Suppose you reap what you sow.

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  • CNJ

    Beat that faggot up and show who the real alpha is. She'll love you after that.

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  • Zorak

    Your title is very misleading. I am very angry. I came here to read a story about blood and lovers passion transformed into murderous envy. You ruined my life!

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    • Dalton77

      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚

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    • WhoIsNormalAroundHere

      Sorry. I wanted to know if this actually happens to people. I think I'm pretty much the only one who dealt with this.

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      • Zorak

        Dealt with a girlfriend cheating??? That happens all the time.

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        • WhoIsNormalAroundHere

          Not that part. The part where he nearly beats her to death and she allows it because she fears that he won't love her back.

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          • TheShyGirlFromWork

            SO... she's dating god?

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  • kwikbix

    yeah it's normal behavior for whores

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    • Dalton77

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