Is it normal that my girlfriend kissed her guyfriend
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. Guys would ask her out, but she would tell them she had a boyfriend already. So instead they would try to be friends with her, and she would aspect and tell me about them.
At one point we had a hard spat, and at the same time one guy who had asked her out, got her number and would take her out a few times as a friend, But he would hint at liking her. She would tell me about him, and how cool she thought he was. And she would also tell me how she didn't like him as anything more then friend. This goes on for a few weeks less then a month.
One night when things between us started to get better, the guy took her out all night and over to some look out. After a small drink she in the car they where in, she tells him everything that's been happening between us and cry's. they walk around a bit and he hugs her, then kisses but she doesn't really kiss back. After about two more attempts he stops and tells her that he can tell she doesn't really want this and said he wont try again.
That same night we talk and admits to me that she was out with him, but doesn't tell me about the kiss. Feeling awful about her meeting him I run all night from my house to hers, 12 miles in the rain for 5 hours till sunrise. once at her house she tells me she wants to be with me, and confesses about the kiss. but later that night she talks to the guy and cry's for him because he seems to be awkward talking to her as he doesn't know what to do anymore.
The decided not to talk for a bit, wait for things to cool down to start as friends again. But it seems like he still likes her, and she still wants to be friends with him.
I know that at some point she thought of him as a possible rebound guy, so the fact that he'll still be around makes me worry. As of now things are ok between us, she has feelings for me, but I know she has doubts about us and the guy. She asked me what to do about him, if they should continue talking or just stop all together. I've voiced my feelings about it, but I've told her that I can't make a decision like that for her. I could try to be ok with it, but I've lost my trust in the both of them together and nothing happening. She's told me that no one makes her feel the way I feel when I kiss her, and that she wont let anyone kiss her for sure now.
To be honest I don't know if I mane the right decision about this. I really love her, the deep unforgettable kind. The kind I'm sure now that she used to have for me, but after this I can't be sure anymore. What should I do about us, and this guy?