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My girlfriend surprised me with a rimjob a few months ago. It freaked me out at first but I have learned to like it after a while. She now fingers and strap ons me as well. I have never been with a girl who liked this but I am glad I found one who did. Is it normal for girls to like boys butts?
As far as I can tell from this site, absolutely nothing is considered odd in the bedroom if both partners are okay with it. I'm not entirely sure how common this is, but if you're into it, does it really matter?
Yup. People on this site don't vote on how normal something is any more.
Instead, they vote 'normal' on anything that isn't impossible.
It pisses me off because votes no longer represent how normal something is, but rather how many people think something is possible, even if unlikely.
Some examples:
IIN to be able to suck your own dick?
"Well, guys NORMALLY can't do that, but since it is possible for a lucky few, it must be 'normal'."
IIN to be gay?
"Well, people aren't NORMALLY gay, but since homosexuality exists (even by a tiny fraction) the vote goes to 'normal'."
I know this may be an odd concept for you to understand considering the wording you used...but isn't it possible...just maybe...that the reason people on here vote "normal" so much is because it's a lot more common than you think? Or perhaps they think it is relatively normal or "ok" to do or be - X
It's an opinion based site, it's as normal as we find it. Is it normal for a woman to have a dick in her mouth? not according to the bible, so giving blowjobs deserves a 0%?
You even being here and saying that anything other than reproductive sex is normal is not "normal" so you contradicted yourself before you even made it to the end of your post, but besides that it's your OPINION, which you are entitled to give, and so are other people, learn to live with the fact that maybe...JUST MAYBE! People are becoming more accustomed to very different and rare forms of paraphilias
Well, the other issue is that people that are completely normal, generally don't worry about how normal they are, so they won't end up here.
Despite the inaccurate voting, the normality of the users here is also questionable.
I'm here because I like reading all the weird questions that people ask (no idea how normal that is, maybe I should make a post),
and occasionally reassuring people that ask some more normal questions,
and also sometimes answering those facepalm-worthy ones with sarcasm.
There's a lot of generally weird things being asked on this site, so there must be a large portion of generally weird users here also, that consider those generally weird things normal.
Normal people that are more likely to vote 'not normal' on weird shit aren't members of this site, or may not even know about it as they've never had the need to find out whether or not something is normal.
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TL;DR: Whichever way you look at it, the voting system on this site is inaccurate.
My question is..who is completely normal and by whose standards are they as such? I think in todays world doing nothing but having sex to produce a child and only in the missionary position is more wierd than pretty much anything else out there. Look at the Amish communities, people view them as "odd" and that's how they are, but we as average people who do many many things get more and more normal occurances by the day because more and more people realize we are a pleasure based species and we love to be pleased, and if that means by having some anal sex or sex with an animal or dressed in attire from the opposite gender people are becoming more accepting of it.