Is it normal that my girlfriend is so against my family for no reason?

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Here's the bulk of it from today: My girlfriend's mom called last night at 11pm knowing we have a strict rule about no one calling after 9pm because our kid is in bed. She lets it slide, like she always does. The night before my brother did the same thing, and she freaked out on me about it, after I had already told him and hung up on him...

But anyways, her mom calls at 11pm asking if she'll drive her to some dragon boat race at 6am the following morning (today). Her mom has her own vehicle but she simply didn't want to waste her gas on the trip out of town so NATURALLY my girlfriend agrees. A week ago my brother asked if she'd take him to the pool store to get liquid shock and to get his water tested in his pool like he does every year because his car was in the shop, and she got all pissy to the point where we just ended up walking instead of getting in the car with someone who's bitching over something so trivial.

So when she finally got back from out of town around 1pm, I reminded her that my mother asked us A MONTH in advance to pick up a parcel for her from a local shop and drop it off at the UPS station (my mother lives 27hours driving distance north of us near the border of the NorthWest Territories)and once again she got all pissy to the point where I told her to just forget it.

So I walk over to my brothers to cool off, and by the time I get back home which was an hour later, she's already gone to her mothers! Then she calls from there and asks if I want to go over there for dinner?! Like honestly, what the hell is going on!

Is this normal or is she just a psycho? I'm putting this on you guys because this way when I walk out, talking all the stuff I own (leaving our house empty, lol) I won't feel as guilty.

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  • dodongos
    11 years ago

    She's a psycho, but don't worry, it's normal.
    My girlfriend is the same way. Sort of.
    Your situation sucks though. Do what you must.

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  • Antares
    12 years ago

    Your girlfriend's a bitch. (Innocent look.) What?

    On with the primary point; she's being unfair, obviously. Maybe your family members irritated her before? My girlfriend keeps grudges, and can last all the way to next year. She once hated my sister cause she (sister) ruined her (girlfriend) shirt, I promised to buy her a new one, forgot about it, and girl decided to toss all the grudge on my sister. :\ We only realize her poorly-hidden dislike's reason 4 months later.

    But what's that about a baby/kid? Yours or hers? If it's both, custody fights suck. Might want to re-consider about leaving.

    I reckon you two talk about it. Don't let her play the "oh I'm so hurt!" tactic while you're at it. If she throws her hands in the air, or rolls her eyes at you, tell her, "You're so charming till I'm tempted to slap you so hard your grandchildren would feel it." ... Nah. "Look, do you want this to work out or not?" Yeah, the latter.

    Good luck putting her in her rightful place. (Y)

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  • Savmagic
    12 years ago

    The 9 pm rule is lame as hell you guys are both psycho

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago

    Same as the story above, just pack up your things and leave her already.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Umm.... And why are you with her?

    She sounds like a selfish snob! But at the same time, it almost seems like everyone relies on her. But hey, if she can do so much for her own family, you're right. She shouldn't make such a stink about doing something for your family. Especially if she already agreed to picking up a parcel for your mother.

    Honestly, I think you need to talk to her about it. Tell her that you feel like she doesn't really like your family, and that you wanna know why. If its something that you guys can work out, then cool. But if shes gonna continue bitching, stop wasting your time with someone who obviously doesn't treat your family with the same respect as she does hers.

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  • ck38
    12 years ago

    I think you guys need to relax in general. Stupid rule not to ring after 9 pm anyway. Just because you have a bunch of kids in bed!! If you have that much of a problem with it then unhook your phone.

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