Is it normal that my girlfriend is scared to meet me?

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Alright so I have a funky situation going on right now
I've been dating my girl friend for a year now, long distance. I'm from Michigan and she's in Chicago, I'm 18 she's 18 were seniors in highschool. She's been going through A LOT the past year from her fathers passing to her mom leaving her.... she's verrrry self concious but I love her to death.
Well she came too Michigan 5 months ago to meet me and has yet to meet me... She's very scared and nervous to meet me. I've seen her once on my way too work and she's seen me at meijer because we were playing hide and seek ( Ik it sounds weird) but of course I never found her. We've seen each other but not at the same time if that even makes sense. When we plan to meet she just makes an excuse or doesn't answer her phone. And once we talk again, I try not to bring it up to avoid arguing about it. shes staying with her friend gabby that she met here and I just found out where her house was. She wasn't home when I went there since I told her I would stop by around 1... And she would get mad if I came without asking. I know she loves me and we talk a lot but she's just too nervous to meet me I just need some advice. My parents have no idea of our relationship since I never wanted to tell them about me online dating. Any advice would help thanks

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    I don't think you understand what the words dating and girlfriend mean.

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    I don't understand how you have seen her places but not met...or how you can play hide and seek...but not have met.

    You make no sense.

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    You are not dating and you do not have a real GF if you haven't even met her. She has something to hide. She might even be a 'he'.

    Make an ultimatum, set a deadline, if she doesn't meet you, you will cut off all contact and find a real GF.

    I know it's not what you want to hear – wake up and stop kidding yourself.

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  • anitaweiner
    8 years ago

    how are you dating her if you've never met her though

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  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    You don't have a girlfriend, mate, it's time to move on.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Throw that catfish back!

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