Is it normal that my girlfriend is becoming very close with a lesbian?

Maybe she's got a bigger penis than you?

I'm a human sexuality educator.

Sexuality is very very complicated. It can not be summarized for each individual, nor for a blanket of people. The only thing to do is ask her about it. People can still identify as "straight" but have a behavior that doesn't typically coincide with the label. I identify as a gay man. But does that mean that out of the 7 billion people in the world, there's never going to be a single woman I'm attracted to? It's very possible that there is at least one woman- or even hundreds of woman I may like, each in many different ways. I may even be sexually attracted to some. And the same works for people who identify as "straight". It's very possible there are some people in the world that are the same sex/gender that you find very attractive- even sexually.

We barely meet a few thousand people in our lifetime. No one has truly interacted with all 7 billion people on earth, the label on sexuality is just whatever someone is comfortable calling themselves. So she could still be attracted to you, but have attractions towards women as well. Sexuality is a lifetime process, and a person-by-person experience. If you really want to know how she feels about your relationship, you'll just need to calmly talk to her. She may be unsure of how she really feels, but if you still care about her, I'd just approach her as "friend", not her boyfriend, and just see how she's feeling.

I dated five different women over the course of several years before I realized that I was attracted to men. And during that whole time in my life, it was very confusing because we live in a heterosexual world. So part of us may want to still try to "conform" just to make our lives easier. But eventually, we realize it isn't easier at all. Your life becomes nothing but lies and secrecy. What kind of life is that? If it turns out their is something else going on, I hope you can forgive her and keep her as a close friend. But that's just my opinion. It's your decision.

Well if shes had relationships in the past with women then it sounds like it could be very bad. I guess it just depends on how much she cares for you

Dont reply , nothing you can do will fix it, save yourself and move on

simple have a 3some beofre she dumps you

There are many warning signs. I think that she is having an affair. You might as well end it now.

nothing worse that you partner turning gay on you....you just cant help thinking is it you...but remember 2 can play the fag card....just start saying shit about foot ball players asses or how cute ryan seacrest is...shit like that...oh by the way...it sounds like the lesbo is more likely coming on to her...she just enjoys the attention because she likes to know she still gotgame with the sapphos...but it could develop into something if she continues to allow it

I personally wouldn't mind, as long as she doesn't leave me for the other girl and on occasion we have threesomes.

Also only lipstick lesbians, no butches, they're gross as fuck.

The warning signs are already going off.

Oh and that other chick too.

Give me your gf's number.

Yeah leave while you can and never go back.
Girls can rip your heart out and destroy your soul.