Is it normal that my girlfriend is a hit it and quit it?

For the last few weeks me and my girlfriend have been imagining what our future married will be like. Things get really hot then she suddenly either: falls asleep, finds something to do, or loses interest. This is starting to annoy me that she gets the rush and then stops and I get to help her then nothing. Is that normal that a girl will do that?

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  • jensapa

    Maybe she doesn't really want to talk about it.

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  • Nokiot9

    What? U mean she fucks u then falls asleep right away or runs off? Lol, awesome.

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  • DavidD

    Maybe you should just hit it and quit it.

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  • georgienne

    Yeah, I was confused by this...
    Where is the marriage chat? 'she gets really hot' sounded like an argument, but then you said she falls asleep.
    Are you talking about marriage while having sex? Or are you basing your future happiness on sex?
    I think you need to stop thinking, if you're that bothered by it, you aren't ready for marriage.

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  • rayst

    When you say we imagine what our future married will be like, do you mean try to have sex lol?? Cuz the rest of the text suggests that. If im right, she doesnt desire you

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    "Things get really hot" - as in sexually?

    Perhaps she gets sleepy after climax?

    Why don't you try going to bed early so you can get a good night sleep? Then, after things "get hot" she'll be more apt to be awake.

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  • keepachica00

    I sometimes do the same thing. My bf and I have been together for a year and sometimes I fall asleep :/ I feel really bad though when I wake up... Maybe she feels re same way. The only times i really have time to talk is later in the day after soccer practice so I'm always pretty tired. Just be a little empathetic. Try to understand and don't get annoyed. :) it'll all work out.

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