Is it normal that my girlfriend ignores me?

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Well story goes that we have been together for a while, and now she seems to be more interested in her friend who she consistently says she hates. Nothing untoward just cancelling on me to go
places with this "friend" at college she does the same. She started ignoring me around the college itself, and i attempted to talk to her but her reply was that this friend had always been there for her so i should just leave her alone and let her talk to her.

I told a female friend this story looking for advice and she told my girlfriend that i had said this. This caused masses of rage from my girlfriend, with the words you said you would never hurt me again appearing, even though i have and never will hurt her.

I tell her i love her and always have but she never replies to it.

Either a) is this normal or b) what do i do?

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Its normal for a girl who doesnt love you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    She doesn't say she loves you, she ignores you and puts a friend in front of you, she claims that '' you're hurting her'' when it's her that's hurting you.. Have a serious talk or just leave her. You don't need this crap and deserve someone who will be there for you, to care and love you and put you before friends. She's not worth it at this point if this is how she's going to be. I think she just has something going on with that friend to just do that to you but it's my opinion.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      Exactly.

      I wonder what she would do if YOU canceled on her to hang out with another friend.

      Although you love her... sometimes you have to walk away when they don't care enough about you to even spend time with you.

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  • BlueAlice
    12 years ago

    I would cheat on her and hope it makes her dump you. Then you ARE hurting her, and hopefully make her see what a nastly little brat she is.

    If not, then just dump her (cheating is optional).

    NB: I don't believe there truly is such a thing as cheating, but that's what everyone else seems to call it.
    For all you know, she could even be having relations with her friend behind your back anyway.

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  • CorryA90
    12 years ago

    psh cut your loses, and fuck that bitch who told your girlfriend good looking out you skank

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  • Troniik
    12 years ago

    Its not normal that its going like that but it is normal that when u start a new step in ur life like college, the place of your bf/gf start to reduce for a certain time but it should be back like before, if not, shes just not interested in your relationship anymore.

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  • maya617
    12 years ago

    She should know how to balance both friendship and a relationship with u. If she can't and doesn't care that she's ignoring u for her friend then maybe u should leave her.

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  • boogabear
    12 years ago

    She's insecure and is holding on to your relationship because of her insecurities. To me it seem you are WAY to good for her! Move on sweetie.... You deserve love and respect! Good luck

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  • Danii(:
    12 years ago

    She is not worth it then ):

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    You've done no wrong, I'm sorry that you've feelings but her, but you should leave. Tell her she's no good for you and until (not 'unless she promises to') she changes. She's manipulating you like child would. Don't talk or pay her any attention until she's changed to your liking--she deserves it.

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  • buckman
    12 years ago

    Okay, is this friend of hers going through something right now? Because that could be it.
    But, I would just like, let her have her space for a about two weeks. After two weeks of not trying to see/talk to her, if she's still being a bitch just leave her because you shouldn't wait around on anyone. Relationships are not one sided.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    WTF.

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago

    Yeah this isn't normal. If you have been with her awhile and she doesn't love you then I think it's time you move on.

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