Is it normal that my girlfriend ex stays over sometimes they got kids

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So my girlfriend has two children, she is studying at the moment and when I went to drop her some stuff in the middle of the night, his car was in the drive.

I wasn't happy and confronted her about it, the only reason I come up because she told me she was stressing about this course work that needed doing, the kids where getting on my nerves, she didn't say she wasn't alone or she didn't say he would be there, but given that she made herself sound like she was alone.

She said to me he stays over to help the kids three times a week but "Nothing happens" there just friends,

I just find it weird that she never told me this before or the fact he sleeps on the sofa, when he is around.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why don't the kids go to his place if she's stressing so much? She certainly doesn't need another distraction if she's trying to study, so having an extra body in the house makes no sense either. I don't think she's being honest with you.
    Nope, I'd chalk this one up as a learning experience and make her YOUR ex, too.

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    I think there's a very high chance (like 95%) he's not just 'visiting the kids' but also getting up to other things with her. Always makes me suspicious especially when women say 'nothing happened'.

    Women do it so damn often it's almost certain.

    good luck

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  • bozeman59
    8 years ago

    I would be wondering what else there up to as she already has kids with him

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    Lucy got some 'splainin to do. If I were dating someone, they would have every bit of necessary info on my relationship with baby daddy. No surprises. She should have told you this before things started getting serious.

    She is either young, doesn't know any better and was afraid of what you'd think or she's hiding something. The fact that she invited you over all non-challant seems to say that she has trouble addressing challenging subjects. That is relatively innocent, yet immature and this wouldn't be the only thing she'd have trouble being open about.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    That's bad...

    She's hiding information, she's being defensive about it, and she didn't trust that you would understand. Cheating or not, you don't need a partner who hides things or feels she can't trust you.

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  • The-Rondler
    8 years ago

    WHOAH! WHOAH! WHOAH! ............... don't let that happen too frequently. If You're asking strangers on a website for opinions or advice. Then You must be feeling a certain amount of stress. "take care with those flames" - Skyrim

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  • heroinsuicide
    8 years ago

    Thats difficult because they have kids. If you cant work to a conclussion or deal with the fact she does that i would move on

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  • You_have_no_logic
    8 years ago

    Why are you seriously dating someone that has kids with someone else?

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Why not?

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    this sounds really pitiful...

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