Is it normal that my girlfriend enjoys the touch of strangers?

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a few days ago i came to know about the fact that my girlfriend likes to touch and being touched by strangers in an unusual manner..accidentally i watched her to rub her bottom on a man standing behind her on a bus. I was shocked....feeling very angry and disheartened but couldn't tell her about it..before that fact i have also noticed some unusual behaviors of her which indicates to the fact that she loves to being touched or groped. Please help me is it normal...and what can I do if it is not????

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  • snow.bunny_16
    12 years ago

    maybe you should rub/grope her more...

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    She's probably excited by the idea of a stranger doing it, because it's risque. I would have a talk with her, let her know how you feel, and listen to how she feels. Perhaps you aren't the sort that's ok with this behavior, perhaps you are. If you aren't, you need to let that be clear - if you are, well, a touch or random grope doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't love you or even that she wants to be with someone else other than you. It could just be a little thrill-seeking. Perhaps you could even turn it into a game that reinforces how much you mean to her, like challenge her to get "accidentally" groped by X amount of strangers and her reward could be sexual favors granted by you based on the results.

    If you're not ok with it, um... sorry about the lengthy suggestion >.> It makes sense to be upset.

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    • hitman
      12 years ago

      thanks...ur suggestion is lengthy and hard to follow but it sounds reasonable...

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    • saduJ18
      12 years ago

      Very good, I would suggest trying something like this as well. Try to get into it somehow, or just leave now if you don't love her for who she is. If you make her stop she'll resent you, if not you'll resent her.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    This is not normal and I suggest that you tell her this. Explain to her that you do not feel comfortable with this idiosyncrasy. Honestly if she doesn't stop then I think you should leave her.

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  • Cohen
    10 years ago

    Maybe she's just really horny. But that's kind of odd, in terms of like, social manners you'd think she wouldn't think rubbing up against a stranger is normal. Besides, what if they don't want her to? She's essentially molesting them. If a man was grinding his dick into a girl she'd consider that sexual assault.

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  • WilliamAnderson
    12 years ago

    She need me to cum in , when i fuck her ...you can sit and watch...wanna try >?

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    she seems to be a very physical person, probably a bit insecure deep down. My guess would be that it's not only a sense of "perversion" that leads to this, but also that those people make her feel wanted. If someone rubs back against her, or gropes her, then she knows she has a positive effect of longing on that person. It by no means suggests to me that she really wants to "do" things with others.
    Of course, she COULD be a total slut, but i guess you'd know that already.

    As was previously suggested, you could try turning it into a game, or set it up in a way more into your "playful" area, such as daring her to rub up against other girls or get a girl to grope her. If she only longs for confirmation or the thrill, that COULD also work for her while being easier for you to bear than watching another guy feeling her up.

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    • hitman
      12 years ago

      lots of THANKS for ur reply...at least there are some hope in ur analysis that she is not a 'pervert'...actually, she has faced (and facing also) lots of problems in her life...she has some very bad experiences from some people in her life(the list includes some ridiculous gropers in public transports, one of her male teacher....and even myself).....so there have some possibilities to feel insecure....

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      • TerryVie
        12 years ago

        well, there you go. if she got lots of "negative" attention in such a way, it makes it all the more likely that she is insecure and conditioned.

        Let me explain that: If i have a very bad experience, such as being forcible groped while waiting for the night bus, that may, by itself, be bad enough. If i get a physical reaction to that, such as becoming wet, i may feel guilty about that. A good way to "work" this up, then, is to simply "downplay" how bad the experience was. It was an adventure. Not a horror trip.

        And those people choose her to adventure with because she was beautiful, because they liked her, because she is a great person.

        Already see where this is going? Now, if i feel insecure, how about putting myself in such situations again...searching for such situations...controlled, because to the outside world all those things that happened to me WERE bad...i can't admit there was something good about it, not even fully to myself. So, just a little bit of adventure...

        well, there's your recipe for your GF's actions...pure speculation of course, but it's _NOT_ a coincidence that many female strippers have some serious daddy issues...

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        • hitman
          11 years ago

          lots of thanks to you.....

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          • TerryVie
            11 years ago

            you're welcome *smiles*

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        • plum6
          12 years ago

          Aren't you guys forgetting the fact that this can actually be dangerous? I mean it only takes one sexually frustrated guy, and like you said an empty bus stop for it to go very wrong?

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  • thatsfunnyshit
    12 years ago

    I would suggest getting her a large dog.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Smack her upside the head..if that dosnt work atleast its a laugh isnt it.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    She's a pervert! Yuck, I thought that was reserved for males to do!

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    • saduJ18
      12 years ago

      Silly. Ridiculous. She has found something that exites her, makes no difference what gender you are. WE ARE ALL PERVERTS, if the truth were known.

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