Is it normal that my girlfriend embraced me while..

So i was at my girlfriends house and we were laying on her bed. I was feeling sleepy so i just closed my eyes and turned with back against my girlfriend. After a while she layed next to me and embraced me from behind. It is cute but it seems strange at the same time because a guy should embrace a girl. Please tell me. Should i let her embrace me like this or should i turn to her and 'reverse' the embrace ?

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Comments ( 28 )
  • Arm0se

    I like being the little spoon. I don't understand what the problem is...

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    • RoseIsabella

      Me too!

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      • Arm0se

        Lol. I'm a guy though :p

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        • RoseIsabella

          Oops, actually I mostly meant that I don't understand what the problem is. I would always take turns being the big or small spoon.

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    • Ellenna

      Neither do I

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  • derpyderp

    Shouldn't be a problem if you're comfortable with your sexuality & your role in the relationship.
    It's nice to be held sometimes.

    Plus there's some advantages to being in that position...

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  • mystery7

    Wow talk about sex role stereotypes. I love it both ways. It's beautiful

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  • RoseIsabella

    I love being the big spoon! Honestly, when I'm in a relationship we take turns all night, it's nice to take turns.

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  • dirtybirdy

    You're officially a bitch now. I'm sorry.

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  • Short4Words

    I don't see anything wrong with it.

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  • Aries

    It beats having hair in the face and "stupid arm" xD

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  • Was she trying to grab your wiener?

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    • handsignals

      Reach around.

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  • daydreamer394

    Oh for goodness sake. NORMAL.

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    • flamer180

      I know seriously, its crazy how people even have to ask stuff like this lol

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  • regisphilbin

    can I borrow your girlfriend for a few hours since your obviously not man enough to handle her?

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  • (s)aint

    Usually me and my guy take turns. When we fall asleep, he holds me and during the night we switch and in the morning i cuddle him from behind and touches his wiener.

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  • Shackleford96

    Stop being so insecure, of course it's normal. You don't feel like she's challenging you or something do you?

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  • Ellenna

    I don't see what the problem is, forget about the "shoulds" and accept it if you enjoy it

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  • bruhhh

    Yes! That is totally normal, if you want to embrace her back then do it. You shouldn't feel like you're jeopardizing your role as the guy in the relationship.

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  • galen

    You're quite normal. I'm a man and I love being the little spoon, held from behind in a woman's arms. But in my case it goes farther. I love being held by a woman from behind with her hands pulled back into my stomach super tight, like she's squeezing me in two. I mean TIGHT, with her hands wrenched back into my stomach all the way to my spine. It comes from getting held on laps that way a lot when I was a kid, blame a couple of older teenage girls in my environment.

    I've sometimes struggled with whether this fetish of mine is normal or not, and despite the fact that my SO accepts it, it sometimes makes me feel like a freak. But four or five days out of the week if you asked me I'd probably say it's normal. Different but normal. And if I'm normal then believe me, you're normal.

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  • keru

    Guys don't always have to be dominant lolol

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  • flamer180

    That is sooo cute! Let her keep doing it as much as she wants! <3

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  • Riddler

    No your GF loves you! She wanted to hold her bf. It has nothing to do with masculinity. She just felt like snuggling against her sleepy Bf.

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  • slings_and_arrows

    If I was your gf I'd be really disturbed by you worrying about this. Not only do I like hugging a man like that but also having his head on my chest or lap and stroking his hair. Girls like to do the protecting too, it's not all black and white. If a girl hugging you is putting your masculinity into question...that's not a good sign. Maybe you're going to be controlling in other ways to make yourself more macho...which is dumb and you could lose the girlfriend.

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  • green_boogers

    Tell her to undress you and ride you cowgirl style.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    If your not the big spoon your a twink.

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  • LuxM4G

    Well, it is a bit unorthodox. Don't you like to embrace her? Would you rather be on the receiving end?

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