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she is a virgin, and she is 19. she let me finger her once and she said she didn't like it and made me stop, so I tried again a couple days later and she still didnt like it and said it hurt again, I didn't know what i was doing wrong cause ive done it to other girls and they loved it but why does she say it hurts? I only put 2 fingers in..
Try the australian kiss first then finger her. Some guys just stuck their fingers up there and expect that we enjoy
Kinda like Monty Python and the Meaning of Life...
"What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hmm? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy. "
I was always told that the Australian kiss was like a French kiss... but down under. :)
And we are all EXACTLY the same there, and EXACTLY the same things feel good/bad for all us.
Sure, sure.
Just accept that she doesn't get joy from that, and there's no need for you to have done anything wrong-
I'm certain there's plenty ways you can please her.
If you get the chance to again, I suggest just using one finger or just rubbing that special section. How does she feel about masturbation? Ask her if she is comfortable and maybe she can do it herself to explore herself. If she enjoys it, you are in the clear to attempt again.
I don't like my bf fingering me. He's got nails man! those things scratch even when they're clipped. It's preference. You shouldn't have tried again :/ Respect her goddamn wishes man.
"cause ive done it to other girls"
There's your problem. Stop judging her off of what other girls like.
No girl wants her boyfriend to run around treating her like she's "not normal" because the ex had a wider pussy. Keep on doing that and you'll probably end up dumped.
Accept her choices and let her chose her own level of sexuality. You won't do her any favors by putting your own desires above hers and trying to force her to change her mind.
Are you getting her really wet before just jamming your fingers in?
Most girls I've been with prefer a clit massage over a finger-bang...
I've had girls tell me they don't like it before but I've managed to get in there & they ended up loving it!