Is it normal that my girlfriend doesn't answer my calls often

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Ok here's my story. I met this girl about 4 months ago and we've been dating for a month. The problem started when she kinda changed about answering my phone calls. While she's with me she's checking her phone/fb every 5min but when we're away she usually doesn't answer my calls and instead of returning my calls she just text back and say sorry she didn't hear it or was busy. As I know she's mostly at home and in her room and I'm a full time student and working full time too but almost never missed her calls.
Just to mention this she was virgin till we had sex for first time a week ago. Now I kinda feel she really feels lazy to see me even.
I've no idea if she just lost her interest in me or she just feels lazy to get out and spend sometime with me. Byrheway she enjoy being with friends and that's what she prefer the most.
Are these things normal for a 19 years old girl or I'm getting old and can't handle these kinda games anymore?

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  • nanimeow
    12 years ago

    If she is on her phone when she is with you and doesn't really return your phone calls, she probably isn't as into the relationship as you.

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  • flosstreader
    12 years ago

    I can relate because I dislike being called up, since texting is so much easier and takes less effort to say the same thing. Also it leaves you to do what you please and answer when you feel like it. Maybe she just dislikes talking (maybe she doesn't think she communicates as well as she likes) and prefers the liberty and ease of texting. Also maybe she thinks now that you're so close you wouldn't mind so much that sometimes she doesn't pick up. Maybe now she just feels comfortable and wants to act with less inhibitions on her behavior.

    Personally, when I feel embarrassed or like I don't have the means to talk to someone on the phone at that moment I decline the call, but I only do it with people I know will always get back to me and that I trust (:

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    Sorry man she lost interest

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  • Checkpoint84
    12 years ago

    Guys thank you so much for your comments. Actually we met last night an we planed to stay at car in a quiet place and kinda did talked n more stuff. U know. Well about her feelings after her first sex we talked and she doesn't seem sad about it. She always says how much she loves me(mostly by text). I personally prefer to say my feelings in person or on the phone but she's still into texting more than anything. So If I miss her I would Mostlikely reach her voice mail till she feels like talkin which ends up me calling her again or is she's planing to get together with her friends including me she calls and ask my idea. We really don't have a long conversation on the phone. From once side I feel she's just killing time with me and the other side she show some love which keeps me going. I'm so confused. The worse thing is that she's traveling to her country for 2 month and I have no idea what's going to happen when we're far away. Should I wait? Should I just finish it before she leaves? I just don't wanna waste my summer and a time in my life spending for someone that even may
    Not looking into our relationship serious !!

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    • Ldizzy1234
      12 years ago

      Aww, if you're having second thoughts, and your gut feeling is telling you that it's not gonna work, it probably won't. :(

      I don't really know about your relationship with her because I'm just some girl on isisnormal, but from the information you've said in your post, I think you can find somebody better. I'm sorry, but it just sounds like an iffy situation you're in. Good luck to you!

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  • Appreciate
    12 years ago

    maybe you didn't give her an orgasm.
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    or maybe you gave her a disease.

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  • Andyailin
    12 years ago

    No body mention that she may be embarrase after having sex with you. So she may feel akward talkin to you or seeing you after that.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    That can be kinda annoying and rude that shes constantly checking her phone and facebook WHILE shes with you. I would never do that when I'm with someone. It's rude. It's just as bad as texting in a restaurant on a date. And space is one thing, but she never answers your calls except to say sorry? Sounds a little weird to me. I think you should talk with her about this. Ask her whats up, and that you feel as though she doesn't care that much.

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