Is it normal that my girlfriend acts this way?

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I have been with my gf for over a year. I love her and she shows me love.
I'm kinda men would have sex every day at least once, but she can't not because she doesn't want to, but because of her situation at home. We don't live together yet (I can't wait to live together). But her situation at home doesn't allow her to do so. I totally understand and being really understandable because I really love love.
Her disadvantages are stubborn, big head and she's always right(if you know what I mean) and every time we have sex the day after, I feel down because I know I won't have sex for a week. But she takes to me like I make problems while I don't feel like I'm doing problems or at least not noticing my self making problem.
When I feel down, I feel she has no consideration to me, she blames me always. However, when she's really grumpy, I become really understandable and kind to her as she says.
is it normal that happen between us, and we still live each other... Any advice what shall I do and am I doing anything wrong?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You sound more interested in your own personal sexual satisfaction than you are in your girlfriend's feelings.

    Have some respect. At least your getting it once a week.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    You claim you understand why she cannot have sex with you as much as you want.... yet you are whining about it.

    That sounds like you don't really understand and you're putting your orgasms ahead of the relationship.

    If you are really serious about having your own place, then you need to get a move on getting your own home.

    If this is too hard or inconvenient... such is life.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Part of loving someone is being understanding. Sounds like you are that way mostly but you have to realize that even though you can't have sex often that once you guys do move in together that it won't be a problem. Dont worry on it.

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  • Breazygirl
    13 years ago

    The only thing your doing wrong it wanting sex so much. Girls don't want to have sex all the time or they feel like that's all you want from them. Other then that your being very understanding and the reason she get grumpy is she's probably on her period or pmsing

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  • Mag!ck
    13 years ago

    The only day that i couldnt have sex with my partner because of any problem was the nitgh he found my dear rescued pregnant cat in the street, and if look my comments up you can see my life is still fucked up and we have two toddlers and we get it in a lot, morning sex, when the girls nap sex, coming home from work sex, shower sex, waking up in the middle of the nigth sex, just because sex WOW i love sex, getting turned on, forgot what the question was ... Good luck with that

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I don't think you're doing anything wrong. But I do think she might be taking you for granted a bit.

    "When I feel down, I feel she has no consideration to me, she blames me always. However, when she's really grumpy, I become really understandable and kind to her as she says." - That's not right. So basically, you run to her everytime she pouts, but she can't reciprocate the same to you when you need it. Somethings wrong there.

    I don't think you guys are balancing each other out. What you want, and what she wants out of the relationship, are two different things. Something tells me that even when one is being satisfied, the other isn't having their needs met. You guys just aren't balanced out.

    I feel like there's more to this story then is being said. It almost sounds like a classic case of a push-pull relationship.

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    I don't think this poster is 'only in it for the sex' at all.
    Obviously the sex is good and he misses it. I miss sex when I don't see my guy for a while, it's a quality time and I miss it when it's gone. How isn't that normal?

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  • Imnotnormalatall
    13 years ago

    Once a week? Situation at home? Inconsiderate? Typical woman.

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