Is it normal that my girl wont let me do anal

So my girlfriend and i have sex on a normal basis but when i give her oral i will stop and lick and finger her butt, but then when i bring up the idea of letting me do anal sex to her she says now. I told her i will use plenty of lub(Vaseline) she still says now, but when i get her really hot and bothered i use her own juices as lub when i slide 2 fingers into her butt. Is this normal, and how can i convince her to let me do anal to her?

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Based on 15 votes (9 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • thegypsysailor

    What's the matter, is anal something you can't live without? Give the poor girl a break. If she doesn't want your dick in her ass, so the fuck what? Leave her or shut the fuck up and be happy you have a loving woman who gives your lame ass any sex at all.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You can't get your girlfriend to do anything she doesn't want to do. Get over it!

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Offer to let her fuck you with a strap-on.

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  • peridot

    If she doesn't want to do it, then don't make her do it. The anus wasn't built for penetration so get over it

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  • EccentricWeird

    get better lub(vaseline)

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  • dirtybirdy

    There seems to be a miscommunication....

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    • shuggy-chan

      NOW why do you say that?

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      • dirtybirdy

        I don't no.

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        • VirgilManly

          I think she wants it, she wants it NOW!

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    I can assure you sometimes it takes time and patients. Keep trying. Once they do it they want to do it all the time.
    Sometimes never happens. Some girls are scared or had a bad experience before with some kind of stupid ill-mannered guy.
    Can't blame them for that. Is a very intimate sexual act for them.
    I know that is quite frustrating for a guy coz it's important in our sexual life and on the top of it, we think immediately that she doesn't trust us. Trust is all we need in bed.
    When a girl/women totally trusts a guy in bed she gets the best of us and anal it takes part of a regular sexual life between a couple.
    Talk to her and try to understand her fears.

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