Is it normal that my girl wont let me do anal
So my girlfriend and i have sex on a normal basis but when i give her oral i will stop and lick and finger her butt, but then when i bring up the idea of letting me do anal sex to her she says now. I told her i will use plenty of lub(Vaseline) she still says now, but when i get her really hot and bothered i use her own juices as lub when i slide 2 fingers into her butt. Is this normal, and how can i convince her to let me do anal to her?