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I was talking to my fiancee and she told me that she wants to call me "daddy". She says it excites her sexually to do that. She is 30 and I am 44. She said she would also like me to adopt her legally so that she really is my daughter. (I know that the adoption laws won't allow that since we have a sexual relationship)
calling someone daddy is not uncommon.. wanting to be adopted by your boyfriend is a bit disturbing
I would honestly try to ignore the adoption part but the whole calling you "daddy" in a sexual manner is pretty normal.
you should vaginally penetrate her mother, and put on a play where her mom pretend gives birth to her. then nail her as soon as she comes out. should fix everything i think...
it is legal to adopt adults, but it is usually done for inheritance reasons
Its a little more complicated than adopting a child, but when you adopt an adult you don't take care of them, but you legally make them part of your family. That means when you die, they have the right to your inheritance and the responsibility of burying you. They receive the same legal obligations as your biological children if you have any.
She knows that in most (but not all) cases, fathers will go to the end of the Earth to protect and help their daughters and will always love them. She wants your love and protection, and she wants it to be as strong as a father's is to his daughter.
Normal...except the adoption part. Perhaps there she is just expressing her desire for a legally-binding contract that validates the relationship. Can't divorce your family once you are grown. As I write this I realize it would mean all the legal (I think) freedoms and rights given to marriages. But perhaps passing as man/wife publicly would be best if you did agree to take the game that far. Real relatives, friends, aquaintences etc did not agree to play the game with you. Also, of she has a relationship with her real parents...this would legally sever that and (I believe) they would have to agree to it on paper or come fight in court.
she wants the feeling of insest!.... she might have wanted sex wid her real dad... or he might have fucked her n she wants something like that aswell.. sorry but shes a freak bout the whole adoption thing but calling u daddy is kinda normal... i wudnt b able ta have sex wid a dad figure or my actual dad im not nasty like that!
Your gf sounds like a creepy bitch with some serious issues.
Personally, I wouldn't tolerate any of that shit.
Normal for her. A little kink can go a long way. Harmless. Just go with it.
Is it normal for a Girl to have intercourse with her Father?
No, Well the same applys to this. The daddy part is normal all that adoption os kinda creppy.
The adoption thing might be a step too far but your theory on an adoption agency turning you down because you have a sexual relationship with the to-be-adopted you're mistaken.
You don't tell them about that & if they ask, you lie.
Anyway, the "Daddy" thing by itself is normal & sexy as hell. Try it on for size.
Those are some serious Freudian issues there, friend. I see relationship counseling in your future. I also see the counselor writing a book about you.
It's not about being kinky, she obviously has daddy issues she needs to work on. Anyways I'm pretty sure you can't adopt someone once they're over the age of 18.
Daddy issues. getting men laid since the dawn of time.
use the back door from now on, it's ok.
She can legally change her last name to your last name, then you bypass all that. Lucky Guy!
HELL YEAH, you are so lucky, my friend. Most women are stuck up bitches but your fiance sounds hot as fuck.
My Sisters wanna be my little girls and love calling me daddy they are 17 and 19 and I'm 20
If I had an SO to pull that shit on me, I'd leave. She's into infantilism. Don't try to legally adopt her. It would make it impossible to marry her, that is if you ever decided to get married. You can engage in Age Play with her, if you're okay with doing so. Personally, I think the whole fetish is weird and creepy.
Your chick has issues you've gots to make a run for it!!!!! She probably had sex with her dad as an adolescent :o
Adoption isn't possible because you are both past the age of majority and there was no dependent relationship when the dependent was under the age of majority.
As for her wanting to call you "daddy" that might be the need for a feeling of security, or for a feeling of dominance, or it may be a desire for the forbidden. You might want to explore that further as you both grow closer, since it will determine where next to take this fantasy of hers (eg, spanking might be appreciated by someone with a desire for dominance but be totally hurtful to someone with a desire for security).
As far as "normal" goes, this is normal. At the edge of normal, but not outside of it.
We all have our kinks, and it's pretty nice that she feels that you are the sort of man which she can trust with her's.
Pretty normal fantasy. She seems to be taking it farther than most but whatever. Roll with it if you feel comfortable, don't if you don't. Pretty simple
Its called being kinky, its normal! If you did adopt her, well if they found out about the sexual relationship i think you could get in trouble as it technically is incest. Have fun x