Is it normal that my gf's sexual abilities intimidate me?

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My girlfriend normal masterbates by dry-humping soft objects, most of the time a pair of rolled up sox. Doing this she can give her self multiple orgasms in a short period of time. As many as she wants untill shes too tired. This makes me feel insuficient because I can never give her more then one and normally thats just because she likes to be on top and basically gives them to herself. Is it normal that I fell weak and intimidated by this. (Also id like to note that I not physically weak. Im 6'2 and am current training to become a Marine)

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Maybe not physically, but mentally you are. She is with you for a reason. Don't simply get limp over this. Lol. Try to fuck her nymphotic brains out!!! She might love it.

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    • dan_d8b_dbline
      13 years ago

      I do that and she likes it but never has an orgasm from it. But I don't show my insecurity when we have sex. I still act like a strong, manly individual. I just cant get the idea that she pleases her self more then I please her out of my head and its been bothering me a lot.

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  • theceilingfan
    13 years ago

    It's...it's impossible to give her the exact same feeling. I don't think shaving would really help, because its a sort of pressure thats really hard to replicate during sex. Maybe in her case that would help though because she seems to need less pressure than I do. Hey, why not try it and see if she likes it? If not you can just laugh it off as a failed venture. Umm....like I said, try teasing her first and give her a couple of orgasms first (work for it, man!) before you have sex, and THEN fuck her brains out. That usually gets me so turned on I could be fucking some inept virgin and I'd likely have multiple orgasms ;)

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  • theceilingfan
    13 years ago

    Your girlfriend sounds like she masturbates in a somewhat simliar fashion to me, which is very common (clitoral stimulation), although I want even more pressure than her so I use my palms (harder object than socks). It's not really possible to replicate the exact feeling while having sex with a man, although it's possible while having sex with a woman. Try teasing her more to help build up her up before you start fucking her and then rub her clit while you're fucking her. If you figure out exactly what technique she likes she'll likely cum repeatedly for you.

    Don't take it as that you're inadequate; as someone said she's with you because obviously you satisfy her. I have multiple orgasms during sex, but they are definitely less quick to occur than when I'm pleasing myself, so just know it's not your fault...I'm pretty sure it's a common thing ;)

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    • dan_d8b_dbline
      13 years ago

      Yes I can tell when she is on top she works her clit. She even gets me to sit of a little bit to raise my lower abdomen so she can more easily rub her clit on the area above my penis. I normally only trim my pubes, should I shave that area are does it probably help stimulate her clit? I know if I asked her should wouldnt want me to shave cus she knows I think its gay. But I would if it helped. Anyway even when shes on top she stops after shes had her orgasm. Alot she says her pussy gets sore but I dont know why. She thinks its cus my dick is too thick but Im pretty sure its just about average and It doesnt feel like its too much for her at all. So i still need to find out what is causing that... after what you said im worried my girlfriend might cheat on me with a girl cus she has this friend that she is very close with and they flirt with each other sometimes.

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        I'm the same as your girlfriend, almost at least. It wasn't until I met my current boyfriend that I can cum as easy as I do now during intercourse.
        If you shave it's probably easier for her to grind you, trimmed pubes fucking hurts xD And it isn't in the good way!

        This is an old thread but I can ASSURE you that it's normal that you cum easier when you masturbate alone than with someone. You know EXACTLY how you want it and when you want it.

        You and your girlfriend need to communicate more to try and make you understand and learn how she wants it.
        Mostly when a girl masturbates she fantasises, you should try and find out what it is that she finds more arousing than anything and hopefully it is something that you can accept and participate in.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Ask her what u can do to make it better. Talking to her is key. U won't know how to please her unless she let's u kno

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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    Find out what she wants and go for it.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Suck her off. That will work and maybe she will suck you off.

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