Is it normal that my gf ignores me

She is sometimes ignoring me for no reason when I talk to her and I don't know why. Is it normal. She is 24 and I'm 19

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Based on 60 votes (21 yes)
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  • chicken471bologna

    She must be a closeted lesbian that is just using you as a cover.

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  • Satchmo

    OP I'm in the same position if you don't love her leave her ass and if you do then talk to her about it if it doesn't get better leave her ass then I'll bet she will be saying that she will do better but honestly she probably won't sorry it's a lose lose scenario

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  • cannibus14

    24??? sorry buddy you should be really proud of yourself and everything but a 24 year old should be able to do better. i'm 20 and would barley consider flirting with a 19 year old. maybe its different if you guys are really really in love but sure doesn't sound like it. i like the lesbian idea. stick with it though you should honestly be super proud of yourself.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    How exactly is she ignoring you?

    I ask because I tend to hyper-focus. That means i can focus on something to the exclusion of all else... say, if i'm reading a story and someone tries talking to me.

    I'm not really "ignoring" them... they just didn't catch my attention yet.

    Is she doing that? Is she being preoccupied?
    Or is she literally ignoring you while you're right in front of her trying to say something?

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  • If she continues to di it, dump her. You're in a relationship to be with her, not to be ignored by her.

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  • blackmesa

    I think it is normal in some kind of way. She is obviously going through something, we don't know what. That is why you should talk to her about it and figure it out. Maybe she has some kind of problem or maybe she doesn't feel so sure about your relationship. In any case, you have to talk to her about it.

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  • Corleone

    That's no respectful behavior. Are you sure you want a relationship with her?

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

    Nope, she's either cheating on you with someone her age or she just doesn't want to be around you anymore.

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    • colourmoon

      i don't think these are the only possibilities.

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      • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

        It's possible. Very possible!

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        • colourmoon

          sure it is. but not the only two options. could be anything. maybe she's jsut stressed or she's just a prick or else.

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          • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

            Very true.

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