Is it normal that my gf checks out other women while we're out?

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I noticed when i hangout with my girl that she stares at the same ass i do. lol. I don't know what she's thinking, but it's sort of weird, yet really kinky. Like i'll be on her left and there's a babe on the right in a bikini at the beach bending down to grab something. So i'll check out those tits, and when i did i realized my girl was checking her out too. It was funny and it makes me horny that she appreciates the sexual desires that i do too. (and it was only that chick in that direction, so yah) And then there's the spandex ass/clit jogging women, and daum, i always keep my eyes on those. And so does my girl. I didn't think hot women had the need to check out other hot women unless they're jealous, but i don't see it. it's like putting two tens next to each other and asking if they're jealous. totally not. (My girl is like a 9, so the ass she checks out with me, i don't think she's jealous at all. just horny or something.)So either my girl was looking at her clothes, or she gets turned on by other hot women like me. hahaha. I was just trying to get my point super straight. So yeah, is it normal that my gf checks out other women with me as much as i do?

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  • lalabi
    12 years ago

    She probably is checking them out. I think sexual orientation is more like a spectrum, and I think most people aren't completely gay or straight 100%. I check out girls allllll the time, and I actually worry that they'll interpret it like Dad did, that I'm being a bitch. I'm not judging, I'm just savoring. I'm bi, but I think "straight" girls do this too. Most of my "straight" friends have shown their true colors to me when inebriated.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago

      i think DAD is hoping and praying that his wife is being a bitch and not a lesbian that want a female more than she wants him...hence his severe adverse reaction to the post to make it off as bitching and nothing else.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Well the most obvious comment here you may get will be, Is she Bi ?

    But I have a another (more likely) observation.
    Of course girls check out other girls!
    They do this ALL the time. They check out their clothes, their body, really everything. This is a NORMAL girl thing.

    If girls didn't do this how would they know what is the new fashion, or the look, or how hot they are compared to the other girl.

    Now since this is in actual fact a selfish, cold hearted, judgmental criticizing look at other girls by your girl, is it still a 'horny' feeling? Actually its a bit bitchy, that ALL women do this. (I understand that your girl may have down played this to you and made you think its a horny feeling - very sad)

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    • HornyPassenger69
      12 years ago

      the last part is incorrect. it was simply because i lacked the knowledge, not that i was tricked into thinking she's bi. and bi chicks are hot btw. So simply put. w/o the knowledge that girls look at each other for fashion, look from my eyes... my perspective.. pretend like you had no idea that fashion or hot comparison could have been a factor. now imagine: a hot girl looking at another hot girl bending over.... what do you think pal? it's simply perspective and thinking around and through other people, not just being mentalcentric and only realizing things only thru your mind and knowledge. You are quite foolish to think you have downsized me. Think of the quote "Think outside the box" Do you understand. btw, you lacked the knowledge of space. analogy--box:Earth. there are fools, the wise, and the unfilled library so to speak, as a lacking brain. in otherwords. the innocent. Fool, Wise, Innocent. Fool is the one who takes information in incorrectly and portrays it incorrectly as well. And then making more incorrect points off of the first incorrect point. In other words, you are a FOOL for using your knowledge and twisting the meaning and portraying it incorrectly. you are a fool because you didn't think about my perspective and attempting an insult. I am only molested because you accused me of mistaking information from my girl, aka a fool like you, which is incorrect. It's only bothersome because it's annoying to let people get away with such flaws. The Wise, their brain is full and they think around every view and possibility. Like scientists. They do not misconceive like you fool. They accept and/or correct and/or leave the answer blank until they find a correct and definite answer. unlike the fool who fills in the wrong crossword word and messes up the whole puzzle. The fool in stuck in the box. The wise is a martian and can see all around the box and also in the box.

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      • HornyPassenger69
        12 years ago

        Then, the innocent. Innocent being lacking information. having a library with naked shelves. Not knowing all of the information and moreover found dumbfounded from the egos, the fools, sense of view. Do you know Goku. exactly his character for example. Innocent, the one who tries to perceive life half and half but really mostly being clueless. They will think of life through their shoes, others shoes, and imagination because they are lacking knowledge. They will take a guess at the answer but not be fully dominant about it and leave it blank as well. Me, being the innocent persay. Lacking the knowledge that you perceived and of a wise made me snap a guess of what my girl was doing/thinking. Therefore, i am the innocent-so to speak-in thinking that my girl was a hornpuss bi. And you are the fool for misperceiving how i saw my girl. And the wise... some one may fill in for it later. Education is power. Know, Remember, and Recite that. Frederick Douglass once said-I wish I had stayed ignorant, because having the knowledge that I cannot do anything against my slavery, ruins my thought of freedom.- <--Paraphrase. Peace Fool. HAHAHAHAAAAAA!!!!!!!! I am innocent. And to shove it in your face, my girl may be a bi!!! AAAAAWWEEYEEAAAAHH!!!!

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        • Dad
          12 years ago

          What you said was reasonable, so surprisingly I'm not going to argue against it.

          What I will say is that people have the right to have an opinion. But who can really have an opinion of someone only after reading a few words? I would have to live your GF's life to be in any position even to make an assumption on if its normal or not, in any situation. Let alone the fact of what is 'normal' in the first place.

          Now, I said I wouldn't go against what you said, and its true, only a foolish person what make judgement and even criticize someone else on absolutely anything. All we have is a personal opinion, and every opinion here on this entire site should be followed by a disclaimer:

          'All replies given freely here do not in any way imply or assume total understanding of your personal situation. They are the personal opinions of individual members lending their thoughts on the matter. In no way should they be seen as the only point of view or fact of the matter itself"

          Now that's off the top of my head, but quite obviously I respect all points of view, even the total opposite to mine. Who knows they may be right too.
          In your case, yes it could easily be just as possible that your GF is Bi (and as a guy too, you lucky bastard!) My opinion is not meant to be the be all and end all. And I apologize on behalf of this site, that a 'disclaimer' had not be mentioned to you earlier. Actually, I'm going to check, hangon... I found this (only)

          "What's this site all about?

          isitnormal.com is an experiment to try begin to determine the meaning of the word 'normal'. A quick look in the dictionary will show that what constitues normal is not always so clear. So, ask the world about your situation, friend, habit or observation today and find out exactly where you stand."

          Continued below...

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          • Dad
            12 years ago

            Quite obviously this is not all that clear either. ie By asking a question you may not "find out exactly where you stand." These are just helpful opinions, nothing more, nothing less. And a big point on the 'nothing less' for you, my opinion was meant to be helpful to you, I also gave my time in reading and responding to you (even though many times the original poster doesn't reply back)

            Re-reading my comment I see the issue, placed in brackets mind you. Stating 'how sad' you should be for possibly mistakenly not seeing another point of view.

            This comment (agreed in retrospect I should have left out these words in brackets) was just a bit of humor. It's NOT sad of you even if you didn't know this option (ie Why would it be?) And if you did, then again it couldn't be sad.

            It was meant lighthearted and humorous at no ones expense. I even placed it in brackets as if I was thinking it out loud.
            ALL my other ideally helpful information was my comment, I even stated in the beginning "But I have a another (more likely) observation"
            That's right, just an observation. No facts, No science. Just an opinion from experience and that's all.

            Further to all this, I'm going to write to info@isitnormal, and ask that they DO write or rewrite a clearer 'disclaimer'. So for all this, I thank you for possibly starting a chain of events that may in turn change the 'What this site is all about', so that's pretty big.

            Damn, my comment is too long, I'll divide it up.

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  • dragonfruit33
    9 years ago

    Ohhhh looks like somebody is excited and have been watching too much lesbian porn...anyhow the soul is sexless, aren't you perhaps a bisexual too, ask her if she likes gay porn with men doing each other, maybe you would be surprised at the answer and she would maybe ask you to compromise to make her fantasies come true too, would you be able to do that? ask yourself man.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    maybe she thinks they're competition and isn't attracted to them like you are?

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago

      this guy wants a threesome with 2 girls very bad...he wants a sandwich with him in the middle of the entire thing...his imagination is running pretty wild and i couldn't even make out half of what he tried to write to dad about the female psyche, he seems more inclined to want to see two chicks bang than to really understand them or himself.

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